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    Default Help on gaming women who work at the Mall

    So guys as I mentioned before on this forum I originally became a PUA because of a super hard rejection by an HB9.

    A little about this girl,
    She was super hot, great body, pretty face, short brown hair, nice height, sweet voice, etc. She was just my type. Yes I did lose it in my confidence w/her and asked for her number didn't demand, got oneitis, and was totally needy coming into the Mall.

    After this when it finally came to a head she said she wasn't interested but was yelling at me when she did.

    So I was a total AFC then but not anymore. So this previous HB worked at The Buckle and I just met a new HB8 at a different Buckle who was hitting on me and revealing skin. I was wondering should I go direct for the # when the mood is right? Or should try to isolate and ask when she gets off to make a meet up point for somewhere in the Mall or whatever?

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    Default Re: Help on gaming women who work at the Mall

    Okay I just figured it out guys. I will attempt to go direct and isolate outside the store. So I will push for both a N-Close and transition to a isolation. This should help prevent flaking, help me know her interest level, etc. I previously acted like such an AFC w/the HB9 who shut me down.

    Now I think of playing it a little more mellow and not make it so obvious. But yeah wasn't even attracted to this HB8 until she started hitting on me.

    She asked me where I was going that night which was such an IOI, potential N-close, and meet up it kills me to see that opportunity ho to waste. It's funny cause when I went back in there she was tearing off her clothes when I simply asked about her Tattoo.She started getting flirty again. This just goes to show when I am not on top of my game.

    Plus The Buckle is where I originally had a huge rejection so going back there may resolve some of my inner game issues as well. Waiting a few months to prep to not get Oneitis or go AFC and then when I go into Approach mode I will hit her up when I have a higher state. Still would like to hear your thoughts on this tactic guys.

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    Default Re: Help on gaming women who work at the Mall

    Just an update guys just went to the Mall again where the HB8 works and she wasn't there. So I went up to this HB6 and she started hitting on me hard. I just rolled w/it and asked her to write her number on the receipt and I would call her tonight. Not needy about it just tried to be subtle but it didn't work and she blew me out. It kinda bites because now my state is high I want to go out and do some approaches but I think I am stuck home tonight.

    But the thing I learned from this approach is that some girls just like being a tease even though they display ioi's like mad.

    Besides all that I keep getting hit on everytime I go out so I think some girls just like to flirt w/me. It sounds counter productive but I will try going to a different Buckle and instead of going for an N-Close just flirting back for a while to see where it goes from there.

    For next time I shouldn't N-Close at the register but try to isolate somewhere in the store where we are both comfortable, getting flirty, and then after seeing her for a while at the store being on a first name basis, going for the close.

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    Default Re: Help on gaming women who work at the Mall

    Hey man I read your posts and i noticed a couple things. First off you are way to results oriented and don't want to get rejected. You have to not worry about the results and eliminate rejection from you're vocabulary. Think of it like this, woman can't resist you and as a man you'll never get "rejected" you'll just figure out which girls have good taste in guys. Thinking like this will get you in the right state of mind. Secondly, control the interaction man! You n close whenever you feel like it cuz youre alpha as f***. If you feel good about it she will too. Third hit on literally any girl, even ones you're not interested in. It will help you forget about getting rejected and you'll learn there's more girls to go after then the ones in buckle. Hoped you found it helpful

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    Default Re: Help on gaming women who work at the Mall

    Quote Originally Posted by Klaurtar View Post
    Hey man I read your posts and i noticed a couple things. First off you are way to results oriented and don't want to get rejected. You have to not worry about the results and eliminate rejection from you're vocabulary. Think of it like this, woman can't resist you and as a man you'll never get "rejected" you'll just figure out which girls have good taste in guys. Thinking like this will get you in the right state of mind. Secondly, control the interaction man! You n close whenever you feel like it cuz youre alpha as f***. If you feel good about it she will too. Third hit on literally any girl, even ones you're not interested in. It will help you forget about getting rejected and you'll learn there's more girls to go after then the ones in buckle. Hoped you found it helpful

    I like your advice. I was just about to give up on picking up Buckle chicks. I definitely see your point and it helped me to see things a little differently. I truly was beginning to think picking up Buckle chicks was impossible. I will try to follow your advice and keep it in mind for next time. If I could be less results driven then maybe I could loosen up a bit but again I am still very new to this and have yet to really hit a stride but I am starting to get into the groove of things and it is becoming a little easier at least. Rejection still hurts but I will try to be less awkward around women I am gaming.


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