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Thread: "We were drunk last night." Is this saveable?

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    Default "We were drunk last night." Is this saveable?

    So about a week ago I met this girl through some friends. And Friday, I invited her to a small house party I threw. Everyone got kinda drunk, and I managed to kiss close ten minutes before she had to go.

    Saturday, I was suffering heavily from oneitis. I met up with her at the nightclub Saturday night, went for a kiss, and she turned away... I tried to act as natural as I could from then on, but eventually I told her what was basically written all over her:

    "Look I think we both know we were a little drunk last night."
    and she agreed.

    From there, I froze her out, She was with a friend, I left her there, and sarged on my own and managed to kiss close another girl (don't think she saw it, but definately saw my game)


    Do I call it, or can I still save the situation. Should I save the situation? I just really don't want to get caught up in Oneitis.

    (I still have her scarf that she's going to have to get back eventually, so I have a chance for contact... any ideas?)
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    Default Re: "We were drunk last night." Is this saveable?

    If I were in that situation, and I have been in similar ones, I do these 3 things:

    - I am ALWAYS alpha, never, ever, ever a needy, clingy, wussy, nice guy. Alpha is what she wants, PERIOD!

    - I continue to go out, meet, date, sleep with other women. Whether I tell her directly about these other women depends on the situation. If I've been friend zoned, I love telling her about them and in great detail. Either way, she'll find out and I don't care. In fact, I want her to know especially if she is trying to play like she's "not interested".

    - I dial up my cocky funny humor especially through random texts.
    I accuse her of hitting on me and that she wants me (if she denies it, I tease her even more over it or I tell her that her that she is so into me and doesn't even consciously realize it yet, though her body language and eyes scream that she is crazy about me)
    I ask her why her pupils always dilate when she's around me?' I tease her saying they're dilated because she wants me or its because she's on drugs (Dilated pupils are a sign of attraction)
    I make sure she knows that I am preselected by other beautiful women whether its by embedding this in stories, her overhearing me talking to women on my phone, pictures of me with my beautiful ex's and past flings, etc.
    If we go out to a club, I tell her to quit bugging me and go hit on other guys
    I tell her I should hook her up with my nerdy friend because she is nerdy to.
    I give her a cute nickname.
    I call everything she has and brags about as cute and little like "look at you and your cute little purse and cute little job as a little nurse"
    I do push/pull big time, send mixed signals, tell her she has beautiful friends, and so on.
    All is done with the frame that shows that I am a very confident, self assured, cocky/funny, challenging ALPHA (.alpha is key here) male with a bad boy edge. Not as an arrogant jerk.

    That is what has worked very well with me. Whenever you find a girl that you REALLY like, that means you need to be even more on your game, tease her, send mixed signals, be cocky and funny, a challenge, be alpha, have alpha body language TIMES THREE!! Many guys make the mistake of dialing it DOWN with the women they really, really like and is,why they blow it because they dialed down her attraction. Dial her attraction up by dialing your game UP!! Got me??

    Good luck and let us know how it goes!

    Da Vinci

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    Default Re: "We were drunk last night." Is this saveable?

    Jeez man, I did NOT expect such a lengthy and awesome response. I will definately give it a shot!
    Since I've met her, I've been keeping a relatively high Alpha Male Status. I've always been calling the shots on where we should go when we're with friends, the party I threw was screaming dhv. Right before we first kissed, I added in what you had said.
    "You can't lie to me. with your words you say one thing, but your body language says another" so I can continue with that.

    jeez what looked hopeless this morning looks completely doable now...

    I'll definately tell you how it goes.
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    Default Re: "We were drunk last night." Is this saveable?

    No problem, that's why we're on this forum, to help one another. Women got their social circles, magazines, romance novels, tv shows like the View, Lifetime, and all kinds of places to learn and share their secrets about how to handle men. Us men don't which is why forums like this are a god send. We gotta work together on this stuff.

    Also, read some the material on here about text game. It works WONDERS in dialing up attraction. It's a slowed down form of communication that gives you time to come up with perfect responses. In fact, taking longer to respond looks better than responding quickly. Always let her know that your a very busy guy who a lot,of people look up to and depend on. If a women asks me how have I been, I tell her that I am doing the best Ive ever been, how great and exciting my life is, how I am a leader, and am always evolving, which is the truth. I do this in a way that doesn't come off as bragging but that I am proud of myself and those who I leads success.

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    Default Re: "We were drunk last night." Is this saveable?

    beast response right there thanks D

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    Default Re: "We were drunk last night." Is this saveable?

    Okay, I took your advice to heart, brought out the big cocky funny in a text game, and the results are very interesting.

    I would have thought that she'd be a little creeped out from the incident at the nightclub (drunk me trying to steal a kiss from sober and tired her) but NO! she's 'ahahaha'ing and 'lol'ing all over the damn place! (although that just might be her style of texting.)
    I'm mirroring her the best I can. using the same smileys, same patterns (she sometimes sends two texts one right after another) and she just keeps on responding!

    Now we've finally got the conversation to relationships, here are the last few texts:
    SHE: Some girls just want sex... and some want more serious stuff!

    ME: Speaking of which, we've brushed up on it but I don't remember... which of the two are you?

    SHE: Depends on the guy, but I'm more going for something half serious

    ME: How do you define half serious?

    SHE: I don't know, depends on the guy. hahaha I want to have fun but not fool around.


    ****

    okay WHAT DO I SAY HERE?! am I interpreting this the right way, or is that an ioi? I think I'll leave her hanging until tomorrow (its late) and hear what you guys have to say about it...

    DaVinci, thank you SO MUCH for the tips.
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    Default Re: "We were drunk last night." Is this saveable?

    Quote Originally Posted by theSkap View Post
    Okay, I took your advice to heart, brought out the big cocky funny in a text game, and the results are very interesting.

    I would have thought that she'd be a little creeped out from the incident at the nightclub (drunk me trying to steal a kiss from sober and tired her) but NO! she's 'ahahaha'ing and 'lol'ing all over the damn place! (although that just might be her style of texting.)
    I'm mirroring her the best I can. using the same smileys, same patterns (she sometimes sends two texts one right after another) and she just keeps on responding!

    Now we've finally got the conversation to relationships, here are the last few texts:
    SHE: Some girls just want sex... and some want more serious stuff!

    ME: Speaking of which, we've brushed up on it but I don't remember... which of the two are you?

    SHE: Depends on the guy, but I'm more going for something half serious

    ME: How do you define half serious?

    SHE: I don't know, depends on the guy. hahaha I want to have fun but not fool around.


    ****

    okay WHAT DO I SAY HERE?! am I interpreting this the right way, or is that an ioi? I think I'll leave her hanging until tomorrow (its late) and hear what you guys have to say about it...

    DaVinci, thank you SO MUCH for the tips.
    Sorry it took me so long to respond. I don't know how I didn't see this sooner. You can always message me if you need some advice right away. I get pretty busy but check my IPad throughout the day.

    It sounds like your making great progress here. if she's lol'ing and responding then your very likely keeping the attraction going. keep it up but a.ways be the one who ends the interactions and dont wait for things to fizzle out before doing so leave her wanting more.

    Anytime a women talks about sex openly, it's typically a great sign. Don't over analyze what she is saying verbally. It's the underlying meaning that matters most. However, it's a little difficult for me to give you the best responses because I don't know the context and who brought up the topic.

    If she brought up sex, then it's likely two things, a test to see how your respond and/or she is thinking about it and possibly with you which is great. In this case, I would have the frame that I'm so used to women saying that they want a relationship but only say it because they want me for my body, so I would say, you women say they that but just end up saying that to get me in bed, use me for my body, and that's when things get intense because they get all whipped on me and do the whole clingy, obsessive thing!

    Depending on the context, you can even accuse HER of saying that because she wants to just tell you what you want to hear so she can get you in bed. I always frame it things in way that I am the catch and say the things that SHE is used to thinking about most men. Beautiful women always have the frame that guys just want to get her in bed and will do and say whatever they can to get her in bed. Steal that frame and now you are the catch and you suspect her of being just like every other woman who is trying to get you in the sac. Again, this depends on the context but I usually accuse her of this, in a very cocky funny way of course. It is something that she probably has never heard a man say and that will definitely dial up the attraction.

    Also, I don't ask a woman too much relationship type questions. I don't want to communicate that I'm secretly looking for a relationship. It comes off as needy and takes away her intrigue. Also. sending mixed signals is great when done right. I will be flirty, teasing, showing interest, kissing her and then a few minutes later suggest that I should introduce her to my buddy because I think they'd make a great couple since they are both dorky but in a cool kinda way so they'd get along great. Women are the ones that send out the mixed signals so when you do so, it just dials up her attraction and intrigue dramatically. It's counter intuitive but as is the rest of the game.

    Lastly, keep escalating things, even if its moving a little slow, what really matters is that your escalating things, when you see her again, flirt, tease her, give her a piggy back ride, thumb wrestle, always keep it flirty not friendly. If your walking on the street or in the car, hold her hand. Then maybe move things to the couch, that's where you can take two steps forward, one step back. Give her a foot massage (do a little research online and get some basic techniques) then maybe a back massage, then once she gets all worked up, stop and pull back like everything's cool, let her reinitiate things, usually this is when she'll offer you a massage. Of course let her but stay in control. Don't be afraid to pullback. Women LOVE this. Then cuddle, and as your doing so, smell her neck, tell her she smells amazing. run your hands through her hair, pull back, then she'll move back in, that's when I like to go for the kiss. Also, women love being kissed on their necks especially by the ears. It turns them on for some reason. Then I just keeping going. If you do two steps forward, one step back correctly and keep escalating, she'll be begging you for it. Of course,if she tells you to stop, stop.

    This is my best area. Trust me, once I have a woman's attraction the area of dates, escalation, and seduction just so happens to be my strongest points. My sticky points are opening.

    Also, To help you better understand, check out the acronym I created to help guys get the gist of which frame and state of mind to be in not just when interacting with women, but to always be in: http://www.puaforums.com/how-pick-up...n-acronym.html

    Keep me posted,

    Da Vinci


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