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    Default Help picking up TA in my class

    Ok guys....VERY interesting situation I'm in (kind of awesome though)

    So I'm taking a "Human Sexuality" class to fulfill an elective I need to take (heard it was an easy A) and the Teaching Assistant turned out to be an HB7.5 - 8. Naturally, I want to sarge the "eff word" out of her and see if I'm skilled enough to pull off picking up a "teacher"

    Background:
    - She's probably 1-2 years older than me
    - Seems very shy and because of this comes off as stuck up (but I can get past that)
    - Class meets once/week for 3 hours
    - More to come if I can think of it

    Now, part of the awesome part of the class is the fact that it's like 7 guys and about 40 girls...and the teacher ALWAYS asks for our opinion on things regarding sex. I'm doing my best to come off as Alpha, Confident and not phased by the whole sex thing and I'm doing pretty well.

    About halfway into the class we break up into 2 smaller groups (for about 1 hour) where the TA's run the entire thing...and obviously my target is the TA

    QUESTIONS:
    1) What approach/body language/conversations/etc should I go with during class?
    2) I have her email address and could possibly schedule a meeting with her 1 on 1...I'm afraid this would come off as very strange? What do you think? Any advice?
    3) How should I act in the class given my circumstances? (Note: This class gets VERY sexual in our discussions and I know there has to be a way I can use this to my advantage)


    ANY advice, info, etc. would be AWESOME..I'll be sure to keep you guys updated!

    Thanks
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    Default Re: Help picking up TA in my class

    HAHAHAHA. This is kind of funny. Well I don't have any tips for you, but I do have to say that I'm pretty sure TA's getting involved with students is frowned upon by colleges/universities. So you got to convince her to put her job, and probably future in jeopardy and sleep with you

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    Default Re: Help picking up TA in my class

    Haven't got much to contribute, pretty unique situation, but I wouldn't use the email address to arrange a meet, if you are going to close once you feel you have sufficient attraction then I'd try to n close after class or something. The email seems weird.

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    Default Re: Help picking up TA in my class

    @Linking...that's exactly what I was thinking and to be honest, emailing her seems like such an AFC thing to do..

    As of now I guess I'm just gonna try and build some sort of indirect rapport in class and hope for the best.
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    Default Re: Help picking up TA in my class

    With the whole sexual discussions in class thing, what about talking about the excitement of 'forbidden' relationships, eg. Teacher - pupil relationships? put the idea in her head maybe

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    Default Re: Help picking up TA in my class

    It's going to be hard to be the Alpha when she is in a position of superiority over you. I've been a TA and we all saw our students as "kids" even in cases where some of them were older than us.

    It's not unusual to have a one-on-one meeting. Your TA probably holds office hours which tend to be lonely as no one ever comes by except to complain about grades.

    I did know a female TA who ended up hooking up with a student, but that only happened after the class had ended. And, even here it was clear she was the one in charge of the relationship.

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    Default Re: Help picking up TA in my class

    Quote Originally Posted by scguitar View Post
    HAHAHAHA. This is kind of funny. Well I don't have any tips for you, but I do have to say that I'm pretty sure TA's getting involved with students is frowned upon by colleges/universities. So you got to convince her to put her job, and probably future in jeopardy and sleep with you
    Many universities are pretty lax about this sort of thing. At the Ivy League school where I was a TA I dated an undergrad (as did Professors). However, to date a current student is to open yourself up to all sorts of sexual harassment.

    The bigger problem is that she sees you as a boy, and that's going to be hard to change. Also, women instructors are trained (and rightly so) to make sure they always have dominance in the class (women have a much harder time keeping a class under control then guys). If she is good at her job she's not going to let you become the Alpha. This is also not a setting which is going to be conducive to knocking back challenges. If she is good at what she does than she will see to it that she is charge of the class.

    Also, I have had to teach on sexuality and you just don't get excited talking about it when your approaching it a clinical way in an institutional setting. She is probably taught classes like this and it's not going to be as exciting for her as it is to you.

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    Default Re: Help picking up TA in my class

    Hey guys...thank you so much for the advice.

    One thing I do want to say is that my TA has never taught this class before and though she may see us as "kids", it's not like she is an actual professor. She is just an assistant (most likely an Undergrad or Grad student)...so as far as superiority goes, I could still get the upper hand.

    I'll keep everyone updated!
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    Default Re: Help picking up TA in my class

    If it gives you any motivation, I slept with my English teacher from school when I was 18 and she was 35, I had left school at that point but still.....

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    Default Re: Help picking up TA in my class

    @linking.....that's facking awesome! haha, congrats
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