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    Default After opener...

    To open it's not that difficult to me. To keep the talk interesting is more difficult depending on the girl.

    Any good tips or routines (links?) how to get the talk flowing without the usual where are you from, what do you do, etc.?

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    Default Re: After opener...

    Theirs this trick I give myself, When you talk to someone and they response. You take a piece of what they've said and add it to yours, then continue with a story or something.

    For example you ask a girl where she works.

    HB: Oh, I work at a sport bar it pays good.

    Me: *Sport bar, it pays good* I had a friend who worked at a sport bar, there was so much work he fainted once, face flat on the floor. Haha, if that ever happends to you, I gotta' be there!

    HB: Oh wow!..-w/e-

    You can do this with anything, add in honest responses tho' making conversation, is just talking.

    If you want interesting I usually talk about Tarot cards, especially the Death and Devil cards. The two most misunderstood cards. They always keep my crowd interested. Guy or Girl.

    Good luck.
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    Default Re: After opener...

    Quote Originally Posted by Johnny-ist-ein-Depp View Post
    To open it's not that difficult to me. To keep the talk interesting is more difficult depending on the girl.

    Any good tips or routines (links?) how to get the talk flowing without the usual where are you from, what do you do, etc.?
    You could say they have a certain energy about them and ask if they do anything creative or artistic? This kind of cold reading is very vague and can apply to almost everybody, then go off of that

    You could ask they're opinion on something that is actually important to you.

    If they have an accent, you could say something like "You have a little bit of an accent, where are you from?"

    And finally, I think the best one that is cocky&funny and can build attraction, "What are you up to besides flirting with random guys at X?" X is where ever you are

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    Quote Originally Posted by ablindman9 View Post
    Theirs this trick I give myself, When you talk to someone and they response. You take a piece of what they've said and add it to yours, then continue with a story or something.

    For example you ask a girl where she works.

    HB: Oh, I work at a sport bar it pays good.

    Me: *Sport bar, it pays good* I had a friend who worked at a sport bar, there was so much work he fainted once, face flat on the floor. Haha, if that ever happends to you, I gotta' be there!

    HB: Oh wow!..-w/e-

    You can do this with anything, add in honest responses tho' making conversation, is just talking.

    If you want interesting I usually talk about Tarot cards, especially the Death and Devil cards. The two most misunderstood cards. They always keep my crowd interested. Guy or Girl.

    Good luck.
    This is called "nouning" and it works well. Just take any noun from the persons last statement, and use it as a tangent.

    Another strategy is to come up with a different topic for every letter of the alphabet and cycle through it if you get stuck (eg. A-animals, B-bands, C-china).

    I also find that cold reading statements work well. Something like, "Well you seem very shy, but I can tell by that glimmer in your eyes that you have a bit of a wild side." These types of statements are great for building rapport and can direct the conversation where you want.

    You can try role-playing. Girls typically love role-playing and it can really help set the mood. If done right, a role-playing game can form a running joke through out the relationship.

    Be creative and have fun with it!
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    Yes! Duke.

    Roleplaying is amazing to do with girls, most of them play along, if you know what you're doing you can have plenty of fun. I know I do haha.
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