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    thekingofscots is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default need advice: gorgeous German full of teen spirit

    I have considered a number of blog posts relating to being more attractive, interpreting body language and sending text messages. Unfortunately, getting a date with this HB9 is not as simple as calling her and hopping on the subway.

    She lives in a small german village (population 300, preferred activities in the town are drinking, skiing, soccer and sex) that's around forty minutes from Frankfurt. That's relevant because in one week, when i get back to Germany from Thailand, i have 36 hours before heading back to Berlin.

    My history with this girl is far from conventional. She was introduced to me as a friend of an acquaintance, a someone who i normally would have brushed off as being out of my league.

    We ended up talking and getting to know one another. Not much Kino, this was pre-forums. I left feeling confident that she was interested, but knowing I wouldn't see her for a while- if ever. I ended up seeing her the next day, but I wasn't in a position to make a move. Facebook close.

    Several months go by with sporadic FB contact. I noticed in the bar the first time i met her that she's a player. We'll be mid conversation and she'll leave. To her credit, her internet is terrible im deutschen Dorf, but I countered her behavior by doing the same. It appears to work, and she hit me up. Short conversation later i invite myself to Frankfurtto which she replies, "GREAT!!"

    Any advice on how to formally ask her out and get her to feel comfortable coming to meet me would be appreciated.

    Ich bedanke mich besonders bei den deutschen pua, die schon viel Erfahrung mit deutschen Frauen haben. Auf eure Rat würde ich mich sehr freuen.

    Many thanks in advance

    Vielen Dank im Vorraus

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    Default Re: need advice: gorgeous German full of teen spirit

    1. You've already established at least knowing who each other is, which means you.
    2. She is open to the idea of you coming to visit.

    So... the plan here is simple:

    1. You are long distance right now, so escalate over FB or text or email. I've done MUCH better in this doing real-time distance comms like text/skype/chat (mainly because you can guage her moods in real time and adjust accordingly). email for this kind of thing sucks because it's too much of a delayed response mechanism.

    2. Don't ask her on a "date" because it's going to mean that there is a "meeting time and meeting place" type of thing. This would suck when you only have 36 hours.

    3. What I would do (me personally), is create a conversation something like this, DOING IT IN CHAT.

    Regardless of the final approach you take, your immediate goal is to get her to 1) commit to 36 hours with you (even if you tell her to call in sick to work because you are special), and 2) commit to spending all 36 hours to entertain you and have fun. THAT is your first goal (not getting laid).

    YOU: "Hey. Ping me. I have a question."
    HER: Hey. What's up?
    YOU: They sell coffee in Frankfurt right?
    HER: Um. Yeah, why?
    YOU: Can you buy about 19 pounds and meet me at the frankfurt airport on Saturday the 19th at 7pm sharp?
    HER: huh?
    YOU: coffee. airport. 19th. 7pm. you can't be late.
    HER: huh?
    YOU: I need a 36 hour tour guide, you're my volunteer, and you cannot fall asleep. we have to see everything and do everything. you have to entertain me for 36 hours.

    >> at this point. she probably thinks your half-kidding and half-serious. You then have 2 options:

    1. slight escalation - Send her occasional messages about random fun conversation stuff and get her knowing that when you get there, she gets a hug every time she might get sleepy because that will wake her up. or something that implies physical touch without being sexual. she will start to accept this almost as though it's happening in real life and increase your Kino comfort. Don't mention sex or be aggressive yet until you get there. Upon arrival you have 36 hours to do whatever your version of "close" is.

    2. immediate escalation - start by talking about stuff you want to do, and start to lead into sexual over-toned text. Unless you are very skilled and self-calibrating, i'd avoid this. Some guys could pull off having a girl pick them up from the airport and immediately taking them to a hotel to screw, but that takes a serious amount of subtlety and agressiveness at the same time. It's MUCH more risky, but also yields a higher reward.

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    thekingofscots is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: need advice: gorgeous German full of teen spirit

    February 26

    me: hey valesca

    her: Heeeey Honey

    me: wie gehts denn?

    her: So lala
    Stress und müde
    Dir?

    me: kein stress ich steh hier im flughafen bangkok und warte auf den boarding aufruf

    her: Och du tuuuust mir aber leid

    me: well hows this, it would tut mir aber leid if you couldnt show me around frankfurt ill be in der hessischen hauptstadt this weekend
    here from you soon

    her: Oh How come?

    me: im waiting for a finnish friend and were flying back to berlin on sunday

    her:Oh okay
    Ehm but i don't think I'll have any time at the weekend.. Abitur starts next week


    me: hmm schlechtes timing but if you find some time, im around hauptbahnhof

    and you should reall feir your abi in berlin-- that would be krass

    her: Could come to Berlin from Friday 15th to Tuesday 19th


    me: tu es! berlin wartet auf dich

    her: Wohl kaum ganz Berlin und Lucas auch ganz sicher nicht


    me: der typ hab ich seit ewig nicht mehr gesehen

    her: Echt?.. Haven't talk to him again after our discussion in autumn

    11:09am

    me: so ist srh.. but hauptsache, invite yourself to berlin, there are always friendly faces and places

    but hey, i have to get on this10 hour flight to frankfurt

    bis dann

    Have fun !
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