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    Default Ignoring the girl you really want

    I've heard from several places that you ignore the girl you really want. Usually done in group settings. You pay more attention to other girls she seems to be familiar with, or other girls entirely, but don't give your main target the prime attention. You also surround yourself with lots of women to play off of the natural selection strategy. Don't worship the girl you really want, don't put her on a pedestal, don't shift the balance of power to her, make her want you with your high social value, so on and so forth.
    I've tried this several times when I see new girls at the parties that my friends throw. Its pretty easy to do, because I do have a bunch of female friends that we're all on good, friendly, play-flirting terms with. What seems to happen is the girl I really want seems to get pissed that I've causally dissed her. Its like she feels left out, so she tries to one-up by getting as much attention from as many other guys as possible; if I'm not giving her attention, there's plenty of other guys that will. That pretty much blows, because now I have to AMOG all of them to get back to her. Its like I've shot myself in the foot.
    Am I understanding and/or doing this wrong?

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    Default Re: Ignoring the girl you really want

    Am I understanding and/or doing this wrong?
    there isn't much that your doing wrong, the thing is that you have to shift your attention between your friends and the target. obviously if you don't give the target any interest at all then she will feel very undesired, you need to give her more attention, instead of just ignoring her, tallk to her but shift your attention between her and another girl who your talking to.

    your problem is that you are creating too much jealousy, try spreading your attention more evenly between your friends and the target

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    Default Re: Ignoring the girl you really want

    Quote Originally Posted by meteora View Post
    there isn't much that your doing wrong, the thing is that you have to shift your attention between your friends and the target. obviously if you don't give the target any interest at all then she will feel very undesired, you need to give her more attention, instead of just ignoring her, tallk to her but shift your attention between her and another girl who your talking to.

    your problem is that you are creating too much jealousy, try spreading your attention more evenly between your friends and the target
    Balance is important, this guys got it. think of it as a scale, you don't want to much on either side. For the same reason giving her a lot of attention is bad, completely ignoring her is bad too. pretty much, act like you're interested but not like you care.

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    Default Re: Ignoring the girl you really want

    Thanks for the replies all. I probably do got to work on my balance more. I have a tendancy to tunnel vision on the task at hand; whether that be ignoring or giving attention.
    As a side note, I have observed that when I am placing heavy attention on my prime target, all of the side HB 5's and below are all over me like bees on honey. Haha! This makes me wonder if the ignoring tactic only works well on low level HB 's?


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