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    Default Her day was the worst

    Her day was total sh!t. Work sucked, family member died, too many bills and not enough money, something broke and/or has to be replaced and it costs too much, she failed a major test, got fired, what have you. She calls you up and wants you to stop by for a needed hug. You get there and the tears have been streaming - or they are just about to.
    Now, this is the classic guy-I-can-tell-all-my-problems-to. Dangerously close to LJBF and/or friend zone. However, it is a girl that you would really want a LTR with. But she's "just looking for friends" and hasn't gotten that far yet.
    How is one to go about this situation? Its doubtful there will be making out, and highly unlikely much sexual escalation. However, it is prime for plenty of Kino and even appropriately calibrated playful negs. Its definately a C1 situation, but C2 and/or C3 could spell disaster, right? I suppose one could try to push for C2 / C3, and maybe even further, but I would think things could turn real sour, real quick after the emotions dissipate: "We shouldn't have done that, I was just in an emotionally vulnerable place, You took advantage of me that way!" ARGH! Hell, you would get out of the friend zone - by losing the girl entirely!! Emotions are almost as bad as alchohol sometimes.
    Anyways, this seems like something that could come up quite often. What is everyone's take on it?

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    Default Re: Her day was the worst

    I would venture to say that if she calls you up in this situation she either:

    1. Wants to fuck you
    2. You have already been friendzoned

    Either way, the choice is ultimately yours. Risk being friendzoned by just comforting her? Or risk fucking her and her getting upset afterwards? I would choose the latter.

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    Default Re: Her day was the worst

    so in essence she's a total mess, she needs a shoulder she can depend on (or so she thinks) and you're thinking about fqcking her? -_-

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    Default Re: Her day was the worst

    Like I said, this is a hoped for LTR girl. I'm thinking of being the shoulder to cry on - every time. Being the shoulder to cry on, and everything else. I'm thinking about being the shoulder to cry on, without becoming the nothing more than just a shoulder to cry on.

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    Default Re: Her day was the worst

    I think in this situation you have no other choice but to go and be that shoulder(if you're really interested),from my not so big experience girls remember this stuff.

    It's just that if you don't go,there could be another guy.

    Also,if you're worried about the buyer's remorse,when things get hot,you should be the one pointing out that "we shouldn't be doing this",you can make out,but i wouldn't suggest having sex unless she insists.

    This way,even if she says something about it later, you can tell her that you told her that you shouldn't be doing this,but she insisted and you just couldn't refuse because of her emotional state,because you felt that if you refused you would hurt her even more.


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