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Thread: This is my sticking point!

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    Default This is my sticking point!

    So tonight I went out with my friend HB6 and I can open, neg, I did the ESP thing but my sticking point is continuing the conversation. I felt like there were too many awkward silences. That made me even more nervous to do anything. As I left her apartment I kept thinking to myself, "Man I'm a fucking pussy why can't I just do it?"
    Anybody have any advice?

    ~The Navaho.

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    Default Re: This is my sticking point!

    Your focus seems to be that conversation is your only tool in your game. When 80-90% of communication is body language. You can create a powerful connection just by looking into her eyes and saying dumb stuff like "Stop looking at me like that. You're gonna make me think your imagining naughty things."

    There's no logical purpose to that statement. But on an emotional level it's speaks volumes.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: This is my sticking point!

    Continue the conversation using nouns that she gives you...if she says she went to ice cream with her sister, then ask about her sister or the ice cream...Do this and sprinkle in some dhv's while your in the conversation to build some attraction. People love to talk about themselves so if you get her to invest in you then you're golden

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    Default Re: This is my sticking point!

    It helps to have a mental list of stock subjects to talk about. I know that sounds kind of beta but it works, you can't expect yourself to always have something fresh to talk about at any moment. Stories of weird things that have happened to you, interesting nature facts, questions of personal preference(coffee or tea?), whatever. Just don't start talking about the weather.

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    Default Re: This is my sticking point!

    Thanks guys. I also think I was picking up some ioi's. She keeps telling me that she thinks most guys are intimidate cuz she has tattoos smokes and blazes. Do you think that is an IOI? Also, she told me to call her when I get off work tonight so I can come back to her apartment and we can have some beers and blaze. I think that's a definite IOI but I hold myself back from escalating.

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    Default Re: This is my sticking point!

    Watch SimplePickup on youtube,and you can realize what random bullsh1t you can talk about with girls.

    It's kind of hard to put yourself in that playful mood at the beginning,which is why i just studied like 10 comfort questions at first case i run out of natural things to say,i learned the cube,Style's EV routine and Evolution Phase Shift.I learned a lot more like a few fun riddles and lots of routines,but in the end,i didn't use them as often as i used the Questions,the cube and EV routine(don't use cube and EV one after another). Evolution phase shift was just there for KC.But there are much better KC routines(the most effective one I've seen was Kino's 5 Kisses routine).

    Her telling you about the tatoos is probably an ioi and a test.She wants to hear your opinion on the matter.Tell her that you find the art very interesting,you might even Kino to make it look like you're really interested in the art.


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