Re: This is my sticking point!
Your focus seems to be that conversation is your only tool in your game. When 80-90% of communication is body language. You can create a powerful connection just by looking into her eyes and saying dumb stuff like "Stop looking at me like that. You're gonna make me think your imagining naughty things."
There's no logical purpose to that statement. But on an emotional level it's speaks volumes.
"All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."