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    Default How to ask out college co-worker, who wants to hangout

    So a coworker of mine HB8 has been giving me clear signs that she wants to hangout for the past few weeks. I finally took the initiative to get her number on and go on a study date (Wednesday). We were able to talk for an hour, not really much of studying, and I definitely made the mistake of not kissing her when we parted. Clear signs that she wanted to kiss (ie conversation about lips, gum, and intense eye contact). Anyway, I texted her last night on her 21st birthday and we talked/flirted for a bit and now she wants to hangout tonight. What do you guys recommend I ask her to do? I'm thinking about inviting her over and cooking for her (her job would be to bring wine). How should I go about asking this?

    I apologize for the format, I wrote this up pretty quick

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    Default Re: How to ask out college co-worker, who wants to hangout

    Quote Originally Posted by Michiganstate25 View Post
    How should I go about asking this?
    YOU: "Hey. Grab a bottle of wine and meet me at my place around 8. I'm cooking. You're eating."

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    Listen... it's NEVER a mistake to not kiss a girl on the first go-around. That's not a rule. Consider it a missed opportunity, but never consider it a mistake. A few times of not kissing a girl can throw her into a zone of "what is this guy wanting" but don't worry, it's easy to recover from. Actually, I shouldn't even say recover, because again, it's not a mistake

    When she gets to your house, just chill, have fun. Maybe try, OUT OF THE BLUE, grabbing her and hugging and saying "damn, you look cute." Then walk away kind of uninterested. Playfull stuff to escalate. Take it easy, don't over escalate because you want to enjoy dinner and wine and child have fun. That being said, you DO still want to at least escalate some and definitely do some Kino.

    One thing I love to do when having dinner at my place is to sit across from the girl and then 2 minutes after sitting down, say "hmm. this sucks. I"m moving" and then literally move your chair over to the other side of the table with her. Yes, sounds odd, but she will dig that because you have the balls to do it, but it makes it more romantic. Just stay chill, dont be creepy and you need to match some intimate questions maybe with the fact that you just invaded her space... Plus this makes for solid kino possibilities (again take it a bit slow at this point, but do escalate nonetheless).

    Remember, there is NEVER 1 way to do this, and the above is just my usual approach.
    - CR


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