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Thread: What to say after the opener!

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    Default What to say after the opener!

    So recently I've been switching things up in my game to see what works and what doesn't and I've always wondered what's the best way to go after an opener. So to take the worry off of wondering what to say after an opener I just guess what they're doing instead of asking questions and its been pretty successful! I have an example from today meeting this really cute girl that just got hired. I work at a tea store.

    Me: So how do you like working? (Opener)

    Her: I really like it!

    Me: SO LET ME GUESS YOU SAW THIS JOB WAS HIRING AND YOU'RE LIKE SWEET I GET TO DRINK FREE TEA ALL DAY, I GET TO WORK WITH SOME KILLER PEOPLE (point at myself, she laughs) AND GET TO SELL OLD LADIES TEA ALL DAY.

    Her: Hahahaha no I wanted to work here for blah blah blah

    This puts us straight into a smooth conversation that ended with me n closing!
    You can make the dumbest guesses about whatever and they think its hilarious. Plus you aren't interviewing her with questions like all the other guys will.
    "I never get rejected, I just find out if they have good taste or not"

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    Default Re: What to say after the opener!

    Yea, this is actually just cold-reading. You're making blanket statements that either obviously apply to her due to context or are so outrageous that she's willing to accept them because of it.
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    Default Re: What to say after the opener!

    Oh yeah I guess it would be. Thanks for the term
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    Default Re: What to say after the opener!

    Did you really n close her dude? Did you keep talking to her after that?


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