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    esh2006 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Possible LJBF Situation, Still giving it a shot

    Ok so I'm active Army, and there's a HB7 I work with. When she first got to my company, we hung out every night in the barracks, but at the time I was your typical AFC and didn't know how to work it. The kink that got thrown into the whole thing was she started messing around with another guy in the company, and from that point we only hung out alone once in like 3 months time. So a couple weeks ago, things changed between those 2 because she found out the guy was playing not only her, but his current girlfriend and his baby momma, giving them all lines. Because of this, his baby mamma made him 3-way call her and tell her that he wanted nothing to do with the HB7 anymore, even tho he texted her right before this and told her to go along with whatever he said but ignore it (to me this shows that to him she isn't worth being with, but just wants to keep farking her). Since that point me and her have hung out a couple times, and she's complained about how she's in love with him but he's spineless and everything (even said she needs a guy with a spine, like me lol) but in spite of that she'll still mess around with him. Nothing has progressed from there with her though. We're pretty close and open, even to the point of talking about sex and she tells me about sexual dreams she has. The problem is, right after the blowout with the other guy, I tried making a move and went complete AFC on her, so she knew I was interested. Since then I've tried claiming "temporary insanity" haha and just trying to do the cocky and funny stuff while acting like I'm not interested in her at all. We joke about sex topics, but any time I make a joke statement about her wanting me, she says it'll never happen and gives me old man crap (I'm 25, she's almost 21). I just recently found out about the PUA community so I've been trying to learn everything I can and use it, but in the moment I don't know what to say/do lol.

    So I'm wondering, is there any way that I can turn this around? No matter what I do, the 2 biggest problems I see are time constraints. 1. she is leaving any time between now and May, and 2. The guy that she was messing around with will be back by next weekend, and even worse, he's getting moved to be my roommate in the barracks (we have separate rooms joined by a common area). IT was probably an AFC move, but when I found out he was moving in I told her I enjoy hanging out as friends, but I know that she only wants to see him so I don't plan to be around the room if they're hanging out, so she can't "pretend" she came to see me.

    So with this girl, I know she's leaving and going to texas. She is the type of girl I could really see myself dating if she was sticking around, but since she's moving in a couple months, I'm just looking to get a FWB type thing going till she leaves. Any advice?

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    esh2006 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Possible LJBF Situation, Still giving it a shot

    Oh I forgot to add to this.. me and her have had a kind of a "love-hate" relationship the whole time. When we first started hanging out, I was telling jokes and said a couple sexist ones. She started joking that I was sexist and I played it off in a cocky/funny way, so we just continued the joke, sending each other sexist pictures and jokes ("make me a sammich", etc..), and then progressing on to just ripping on each other. Literally anything we could say to each other, the other person would come up with some kind of insult about it. It's been fun but it's gotten to a point where if we're having a semi-serious conversation (usually text), I can never tell when she's serious or mad, or just joking around.. if that helps lol.

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    ConnorMaxwell72 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Possible LJBF Situation, Still giving it a shot

    I'll be honest, with my military background, I always STRESS to soldiers/marines/airmen/sailors -- don't do it man! It's really not worth the drama and all that comes with it when the stuff really hits the fan. It's a massive headache, and I've seen perfectly good careers and reputations destroyed by IG and EO because of a vengeful person. Remember, someone can make an anonymous tip or complaint on a restricted investigation and that's all it takes.

    Seems like you're caught up on one chick and not looking ahead when its' over. What's going to happen if you guys end it and you're still living in the same barracks?? Her friends are your friends.

    But, if you decide not to heed my warning -- it's your career. What I would do is friend zone the crap out of her. But increase sexual Tension by making comments like "You're such a gorgeous girl, how are you still single?" (or something less cheesy), and then just as quickly friend zone her with something like "Too bad you're not my type." The idea is that you want to put the idea in her head, while at the same time seeming like you're not interested in her.

    Move too fast or be overt about your feelings, you'll ruin it. You want her to chase you, make her think that she's the one who was a fool for not feeling anything for you sooner. Plant the seed and make her think that it was all accidental.

    And try not to burn your career up. lol

    -CM


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