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Thread: is "Hey Girl" okay?

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    Default is "Hey Girl" okay?

    I keep wanting to say "hey girl" - which I feel is congruent with how I feel - but not sure if it's coming across wrong. Do you have negative reactions when starting with this? (New York City)

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    Default Re: is "Hey Girl" okay?

    Don't use that!!

    If you really want to use simple openers, at least try "hey how are you today?", but - hey girl? Gross

    Or if you're out "so what are we celebrating tonight?"
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    Default Re: is "Hey Girl" okay?

    I've never personally used it. However, depending on how you say it, I don't think it's complete beta. It ain't my cup of tea opener, though.
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    Default Re: is "Hey Girl" okay?

    I follow the "hey girl" up with an opener

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    Cool Re: is "Hey Girl" okay?

    Quote Originally Posted by The Red Baron View Post
    Don't use that!!

    If you really want to use simple openers, at least try "hey how are you today?", but - hey girl? Gross

    Or if you're out "so what are we celebrating tonight?"
    Pretty reliable
    By "how are you today?" my friend really means "How you doin'?"

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    Default Re: is "Hey Girl" okay?

    It actually might work for you, just say it very flamboyantly!
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    Default Re: is "Hey Girl" okay?

    A simple "hi" and then an opener will do..

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    Default Re: is "Hey Girl" okay?

    I usually use just hey... if u say hey girl to girl ur meeting for the first time its pretty beta.

    The fact that u mentioned that she is a girl sort of gives away your intention. You wouldnt say hey boy to a guy (nor would a girl say that when meeting a man.)

    Sounds weird but trust me, you want to go in as neutral as possible as far as showing intention. After you open, you can escalate.

    And of course, if you already know her you can use girl as a nickname to call her BUT its generic so think of another one more appropriate to her. Dont use girl forever lol.
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