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Thread: My humble take on game.

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    Default My humble take on game.

    Okay, so here goes.

    I have been doing this for a few months now, trying a little bit of everything. I noticed that I am more successfull when I go by just being myself.

    Now, I do realize this is the advice that you get your whole life and it never works in your case. I found out that the reason for this is that when people say they are being themselves they are actually not being themselves. They still put up a front so that they will seem ''cool'' in front of the girls.

    When I started playing the game I quickly realized that this was actually my biggest sticking point. I decided to take immidiate action on it and nerded out. Before game I was a pretty big starwars geek. That is why, when I realized this problem in game, I started to own it. I rock a starwars shirt now, and it is awesome.

    The point I am trying to make here is that; you should let the girl qualify herself to you, not to the person you are pretending to be.

    When you are trying this you might run into some testing and frame battling with the girls you are approaching. The good part is that you will never fail or lose one of these tests since you are congruent with what you are doing.

    Now, don't take this to the extremes, you still need some common ground to talk about, so you will need to switch of your interests some time to something you both like or things that she like. But at this point you will already be interested in her so talking about that shouldn't be hard.

    I dearly hope that this makes sense since I just felt the desire to write this although I am not that big a poster.

    ~Daan

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    Default Re: My humble take on game.

    I get what you're saying... & I would agree.

    It's all about confidence! If you like something, then enjoy it. It doesn't matter if other people don't share the same appreciation for it.

    That's what makes things interesting... the DIFFERENCES between people.. NOT the similarities!

    When you can boldly express your interest & opinions in a non-arrogant way & just own it, then you'll definitely have much better results.



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    Default Re: My humble take on game.

    I understand this completely, and like T-mal said it's all about confidence. It's not about who you are, it's about how you carry yourself and express who you are.
    "Act like you're interested, not like you care."

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    Default Re: My humble take on game.

    Agreed, CONFIDENCE!!! The game however promotes becoming your best self so that you feel the inner confidence that you should have. I feel that some people take that as trying to portray a person that they are not. That is not the intent, the intent is to become a well rounded individual that has a lot to offer. If people are going out pretending to be something they aren't then they are going about all of this the wrong way. Be your best self and be confident about it dang it!

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    Default Re: My humble take on game.

    Well, going out there and having a "fake it til you make it" attitude is actually pretty great at first, it helps you see your potential. Eventually though, you get sick of it and start learning how to be who you are, but regardless people can sense something off about a person when they are uncomfortable with themselves, it always shows and it makes the other person uncomfortable as well...being as comfortable as you can is key!

    I have lost many...and continue to loose potential friends and women because there are a lot of times I just can't get comfortable and have nothing to say. That being said I'm great at "faking" it, I just want the real thing now.
    KISS - Keep it Stupid Simple


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