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Thread: Okay acquired new target, here's the game plan

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    Default Okay acquired new target, here's the game plan

    As I have mentioned on here before I have been trying to run game on The Buckle chicks. Went for 2 N-closes so far and got rejected.

    Now I acquired a new target at a different Buckle. HB7 definitely gave me at least 1 ioi too bad I wasn't in destruction mode today to pick up on her hitting on me.


    So I called the store right after I left and was like "You can be my new helper and help me pick something up". I asked her if she was working Friday and she told me when. She expects me to come in tomorrow but I am going to totally play this thing out.

    Normally I would be all over it tomorrow but I am not going to come in as it will mess up my game, I will be too AFC, look needy, etc.

    So I will go in next Friday unannounced when she least expects it and will probably fitness test me and be mad. But here's the thing I have noticed if chicks get mad (not pissed) at you it means they like you as they are getting invested.

    So my plan is to isolate her outside the store and ask her to take a quick break as she will likely be mad and tell me she is upset I didn't come in when I said I would. This will work in my favor as it will put the ball in my court to overcome the fitness test and possibly get her more invested. I will go for the N-close when and if I can successfully isolate.

    Let's hope this works!

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    Default Re: Okay acquired new target, here's the game plan

    Good luck, and remember, a single ioi is almost nothing more than a friendly gesture or normal action/tick/etc. You need several for them to really be considered IOIs. Good luck!
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    Default Re: Okay acquired new target, here's the game plan

    Quote Originally Posted by Blistex View Post
    Good luck, and remember, a single ioi is almost nothing more than a friendly gesture or normal action/tick/etc. You need several for them to really be considered IOIs. Good luck!
    Yeah thanks for the advice and I don't know what it is about these social situations that makes it so difficult. I noticed it definitely depends on the situation whether or not a girl will give out her number.

    Like I feel I can no longer N-Close any girl working @ the Buckle due to the social pressure and taboo of them working around a lot of potential hindering factors. I think it personally would also be especially hard to N-Close even a female bartender at Night Game just because they may think "This is just another guy" or "I don't feel comfortable giving out my number."

    So to Night Game likely I will look to maybe set up a D2 the next day from the Club at a specified destination where we can meet on more mutual terms since not only will that allow me to get her # and confirm it @ the D2 it also allows me to skip having to play and win at the phone game prior to us going out.

    So with these Buckle chicks they have always been very hard shut downs like super hard! Felt awkward for me and for them. This is why I think adding them on FB or trying to secure a D2 in the store wouldn't work.

    If anything isolation maybe the only way for me to successfully N-Close a Buckle HB if I can get them out of the store for like a 10 min break or something. Plus I truly think this will take more confidence on my part as I will have to up my game and it will be original so if I can pull it off it will look pretty Alpha.

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    Default Re: Okay acquired new target, here's the game plan

    I think you may be counting on to many variables to go Right all at the same time. That she will be mad, that she will be invested, that she will even be working next Friday, and if that all goes right if she will be able or willing to take a "quick" break from her job to talk to you. personally I would go in when I said I would, maybe a little later then expected. I think she would respond better if you at least lived up to your word, the last thing you want to do is make her mad. But honestly you might want to try it just to see if it works, although unlikely.. I wish you the best of luck! keep us posted.
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    Default Re: Okay acquired new target, here's the game plan

    You are kind of thinking about this wrong though, I think you need to be focused more on having fun and having a good time actually trying to get their numbers. The whole point of this thing should be just to go out and have a good time and get some lols in.

    As a general rule, I like to chat up any girl on the job just to make her day that much better, but sometimes they just aren't receptive. Make it more about goofy and fun and quit trying these "elegant strategies". Truth is most "field reports" on here where guys explain their strategy and how they did it, they didn't even know themselves until later. They were just acting on intuition. When you start to make these "plays" your game goes to sh1t and you start over analyzing things and it will drive you crazy, not to mention distract you from having fun and getting some laughs in.

    Also, trying to Isolate someone at work is incredibly rude. She is at work, not out just socializing. Even if she WANTS to be isolated, she can't do it because she has work to do. So don't be surprised if they laugh at you for trying.
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    Default Re: Okay acquired new target, here's the game plan

    Quote Originally Posted by Blistex View Post
    You are kind of thinking about this wrong though, I think you need to be focused more on having fun and having a good time actually trying to get their numbers. The whole point of this thing should be just to go out and have a good time and get some lols in.

    As a general rule, I like to chat up any girl on the job just to make her day that much better, but sometimes they just aren't receptive. Make it more about goofy and fun and quit trying these "elegant strategies". Truth is most "field reports" on here where guys explain their strategy and how they did it, they didn't even know themselves until later. They were just acting on intuition. When you start to make these "plays" your game goes to sh1t and you start over analyzing things and it will drive you crazy, not to mention distract you from having fun and getting some laughs in.

    Also, trying to Isolate someone at work is incredibly rude. She is at work, not out just socializing. Even if she WANTS to be isolated, she can't do it because she has work to do. So don't be surprised if they laugh at you for trying.
    ^^This^^ Wow such eloquent words, you have 100% sound advice I love it. You are so correct. The reason being is when I left I called the store like I said and talked to her. But I was so nervous I was having long pauses, running out of things to say, and not flowing with the convo at all, my confidence dropped, etc.

    Seeing how this convo turned out I know if I went in there and tried to pull this off it would be a sure failure. The reason being is that I was expecting too much out of the interaction and investing too much effort which comes off as needy.

    So I am not going in there just to get shut down. I'll tell you what though the last time I was in there she was like "You should come talk to me next time". So I will when it is convenient for me and I am not forcing myself just to see her to run some more game on her when I am back in there on my own time and not investing so much.

    You are right though I stopped having fun which happened when we were talking on the phone cuz I was trying too hard to make something happen. I just talked to a girl from my Gym when I called on the phone today (never met?) and the conversation sounded so much better and it was much more fun.

    I don't remember her but she might have been the cute one I saw before. Either way I definitely see a difference from when I talked to the Gym chick and the Buckle Chick. When I am not all about the outcome I have more fun.


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