Re: The excuse is: Not ready to date
Sounds like you have the same problem with women and crappy ex's that I have with women and religion: we just can`t seem to stop attracting them. My first bit of advice to you is to take a day to figure out my in the world you come to these conclusions. For example, I figured out that the fact I was really nice and generous was attracting the religious girls,but repulsing the kind of girl that I would like to date. So how did I fix this? I stopped doing those sort of things. First I began with letting the door close in a woman`s face, and making myself less available for assistance. Then, I really started to be an ass. The end result? Catholic girls are more repulsed by me, and the kind of girls I want are showing a lot of interest in me.
To answer your question directly, you should adopt a "F--- you, you`re a nobody" type of mentality. Take it as offensive that they are blowing you off with such a garbage excuse. Give them the cold shoulder, and refuse to talk to them. If they want your forgiveness and retribution, make it tough, but also make it possible for them. Bait and lure, bait and lure.
"There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X