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Thread: What is more seductive? Asking her out or seducing her until she asks you?

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    Default What is more seductive? Asking her out or seducing her until she asks you?

    So , hey guys, I had a thought..... What is more seductive for a girl you want to date ( not just f-close)

    1) Seduce and escalate until she is boiling over with passion and she is the one asking you out.
    2) Just ask her out on a date early on in the seduction.

    The reason I am interested on peoples take on this is because, from what I have read and observed, each tactic has validity to it.

    Some people may say option #1 is what cowardice AFC guys do and the woman would then have the power because she is taking the reigns in asking you out. But I have also read that when you "trick" a woman into thinking something is her idea ( because she is unsure of how you really feel about her), it is far more potent feeling inside of her ( due to anxiety and conflicting emotions).

    Of course option #2 (just asking her out) is typical but effective. While it does show your interest right away, that is a type of loss of power (because you are already showing interest and seeking validation with her saying yes when you ask her out).

    On a side note: i think option #1( her asking you out) is a long seduction for long term dating, and would work most effectively on girls who are seeking something serious....while #2 is more passionate and work more for the party girl not necessarily looking for anything serious.

    In my current situation with a particular HB8...she is the long term relationship type looking for something serious. We have had an escalation from friend to more flirtatious with some Kino Escalation.....i know she will ask to "hang out again"......but i am wondering if i should jump the gun and ask her on an official date or when she says "hey lets go to a movie and the beach"i would respond with " Yeah we can do that. But this will have to be our first official date".

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    Default Re: What is more seductive? Asking her out or seducing her until she asks y

    You are way over thinking this. There is no difference in a girl that wants some fun or a relationship in the outset. typically this is dictated by your behavior.

    The issue comes down to one very important question, is she attracted enough to want to see you again? long term seduction, I get the idea that this is some multiple interaction series of events that you are talking about, if so you just need to keep practicing until you can make it a one day event. ideally within an hour she should be dying to jump your bones because you are the sexiest most interesting man she has ever met.

    any way, my life is a mix, frequently women ask that we exchange numbers and usually they contact me first. though I have no problem setting up a d2 if necessary just roll with each situation naturally.

    finally, however you and this girl hang out again don't mention the word date, seduce her and let it happen. date has such nasty implications.

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    Default Re: What is more seductive? Asking her out or seducing her until she asks y

    Good point. I especially like that last part about not mentioning a date. I am practicing with girls on the side.....its always so much easier when you are not totally into a girl because you are naturally distant and not overthinking things.


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