So , hey guys, I had a thought..... What is more seductive for a girl you want to date ( not just f-close)
1) Seduce and escalate until she is boiling over with passion and she is the one asking you out.
2) Just ask her out on a date early on in the seduction.
The reason I am interested on peoples take on this is because, from what I have read and observed, each tactic has validity to it.
Some people may say option #1 is what cowardice AFC guys do and the woman would then have the power because she is taking the reigns in asking you out. But I have also read that when you "trick" a woman into thinking something is her idea ( because she is unsure of how you really feel about her), it is far more potent feeling inside of her ( due to anxiety and conflicting emotions).
Of course option #2 (just asking her out) is typical but effective. While it does show your interest right away, that is a type of loss of power (because you are already showing interest and seeking validation with her saying yes when you ask her out).
On a side note: i think option #1( her asking you out) is a long seduction for long term dating, and would work most effectively on girls who are seeking something serious....while #2 is more passionate and work more for the party girl not necessarily looking for anything serious.
In my current situation with a particular HB8...she is the long term relationship type looking for something serious. We have had an escalation from friend to more flirtatious with some Kino Escalation.....i know she will ask to "hang out again"......but i am wondering if i should jump the gun and ask her on an official date or when she says "hey lets go to a movie and the beach"i would respond with " Yeah we can do that. But this will have to be our first official date".