"The SH!T TEST"...
We've all experienced them.
They're a major stumbling block for every guy who is starting out.
Whether you just met a girl or have been "dating" her for a while, you're likely to encounter these tests periodically.
So what's the best way to handle them?
OK, that's great, but how do you do that? And what do you say?
There are a few things you can do when you're being tested:
You can ignore it & keep plowing along like it never happened.
"You're such a weirdo.." *ignore* & keep going. "So, you know what would be really cool?.... blah blah blah..."
You can accept it, acknowledge it & confirm it.
"You're such a weirdo..." *confirm* "Oh sweetheart, you have no idea! I'm just getting started! haha!"
You can intentionally misinterpret & spin it.
"You're such a weirdo..." *look slightly puzzled* "You have the cutest way of flirting, ya know that? It's like you're a little shy, but not to the point of making you remain silent... I kinda like that." *wink
You get the idea... You just need to be completely unfazed by her tests.
BUT, I've discovered that for me personally, there's a Magic 5-word phrase that I've found to be the most effective of all.
The timing of this one is crucial. And you have to be totally confident & use it with congruent body language.
I use this one once the flirting has already been going on & I know there's interest & attraction. (Actually, I start out flirting right from the beginning.)
So, if & when a girl throws out a sh!t test for me, my magic response is this:
"Shut up and kiss me!"
Yep. It's that simple. We've all heard that phrase before, but how many of us have ever really thought about the effectiveness of it?
The first time I used it, I did so because it was the only thing I could think of & I just blurted it out.
I was kinda thinking it would come off as "cheesy"... but it didn't.
She kissed me!
So I tried it again & again & again & again....
And I can honestly say, MOST girls will kiss you right then & there.
Sure, some will laugh & giggle & call you "silly" or "cute" or something similar. If they do? That's great!
She's flirting back & giving you another little test, to see if you're really as confident as you're expressing.
So what then?
Look her in the eyes... and with a completely serious face, (in a firm, yet seductive tone of voice) step in a little closer to her & say, "Shut up and kiss me!"
That's right... say it again.
Confirm your confidence & your intentions.
As long as you've been flirting & built some degree of attraction, the sexual Tension is going to skyrocket when you tell her to kiss you.
It's bold; it's direct; it's semi-sexual; it's intimate; it's exciting... all the things that trigger an emotional reaction in a girl.
It sets the tone & puts YOU in control of the interaction.
Do this, get the kiss!
Then, getting her number is a piece of cake... and you're more likely to get a "yes" when you ask her out.
Seriously, it really IS that simple. And there's nothing "new" or "difficult" to memorize.
If you do this on a regular basis, you'll have a LOT more success than if you try running old, scripted, canned "routines" that you're unsure of, or uncomfortable with.
So there ya go!
Now you know "T-Mal's Magic 5-word phrase" to overcome almost any sh!t test.