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Thread: T-MAL'S "magic 5-word phrase" to overcome almost any sh!t test

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    Default T-MAL'S "magic 5-word phrase" to overcome almost any sh!t test

    "The SH!T TEST"...

    We've all experienced them.
    They're a major stumbling block for every guy who is starting out.

    Whether you just met a girl or have been "dating" her for a while, you're likely to encounter these tests periodically.

    So what's the best way to handle them?
    "With confidence".

    OK, that's great, but how do you do that? And what do you say?
    There are a few things you can do when you're being tested:

    You can ignore it & keep plowing along like it never happened.
    "You're such a weirdo.." *ignore* & keep going. "So, you know what would be really cool?.... blah blah blah..."

    You can accept it, acknowledge it & confirm it.
    "You're such a weirdo..." *confirm* "Oh sweetheart, you have no idea! I'm just getting started! haha!"

    You can intentionally misinterpret & spin it.
    "You're such a weirdo..." *look slightly puzzled* "You have the cutest way of flirting, ya know that? It's like you're a little shy, but not to the point of making you remain silent... I kinda like that." *wink

    You get the idea... You just need to be completely unfazed by her tests.

    BUT, I've discovered that for me personally, there's a Magic 5-word phrase that I've found to be the most effective of all.

    The timing of this one is crucial. And you have to be totally confident & use it with congruent body language.

    I use this one once the flirting has already been going on & I know there's interest & attraction. (Actually, I start out flirting right from the beginning.)

    So, if & when a girl throws out a sh!t test for me, my magic response is this:
    "Shut up and kiss me!"

    Yep. It's that simple. We've all heard that phrase before, but how many of us have ever really thought about the effectiveness of it?

    The first time I used it, I did so because it was the only thing I could think of & I just blurted it out.
    I was kinda thinking it would come off as "cheesy"... but it didn't.
    She kissed me!

    So I tried it again & again & again & again....
    And I can honestly say, MOST girls will kiss you right then & there.

    Sure, some will laugh & giggle & call you "silly" or "cute" or something similar. If they do? That's great!
    She's flirting back & giving you another little test, to see if you're really as confident as you're expressing.

    So what then?

    Look her in the eyes... and with a completely serious face, (in a firm, yet seductive tone of voice) step in a little closer to her & say, "Shut up and kiss me!"

    That's right... say it again.
    Confirm your confidence & your intentions.

    As long as you've been flirting & built some degree of attraction, the sexual Tension is going to skyrocket when you tell her to kiss you.

    It's bold; it's direct; it's semi-sexual; it's intimate; it's exciting... all the things that trigger an emotional reaction in a girl.

    It sets the tone & puts YOU in control of the interaction.

    Do this, get the kiss!
    Then, getting her number is a piece of cake... and you're more likely to get a "yes" when you ask her out.

    Seriously, it really IS that simple. And there's nothing "new" or "difficult" to memorize.

    If you do this on a regular basis, you'll have a LOT more success than if you try running old, scripted, canned "routines" that you're unsure of, or uncomfortable with.


    So there ya go!

    Now you know "T-Mal's Magic 5-word phrase" to overcome almost any sh!t test.


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    Default Re: T-MAL'S "magic 5-word phrase" to overcome almost any sh!t test

    I like it. Certainly will give it a try.

    I usually blow the things they say out of proportion.

    example: ''You are a geek'' reply": yeah, you like nerds like me don't you.I hate women, I only want to play my next starcraft tournament girl.

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    Default Re: T-MAL'S "magic 5-word phrase" to overcome almost any sh!t test

    I knew I was going to love this... I love being right!

    This takes serious balls! I suspect that's probably why it works so well.

    What would you do if faced with an immediate shit test though? Like straight back from the opener.

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    Default Re: T-MAL'S "magic 5-word phrase" to overcome almost any sh!t test

    Epic.

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    Default Re: T-MAL'S "magic 5-word phrase" to overcome almost any sh!t test

    If you get tested right from the start, that's when you use one of the other examples:
    (Ignore/Plow through... Accept/confirm... or misinterpret)

    You don't want t bust out the "shut up and kiss me" phrase if you get tested within the first couple minutes.

    That's why I mentioned TIMING being crucial.
    Once you've gained interest from her & you've built attraction, then it's gonna be more effective.

    I suppose you COULD try it right away... but it may not achieve the desired results. LOL!



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    Default Re: T-MAL'S "magic 5-word phrase" to overcome almost any sh!t test

    Looking back, this is exactly what I should have said a month ago when I was involved with my "oneitis." Here's how she sh1t tested me:

    Me - How about we do this again and call it a date?

    Her - Yeah! But why should we call it anything?

    That's when I went total AFC, got a yes, didn't believe it, and then things went a little south and we agreed to take it slow (clearly not what happened). Definitely would have taken a different turn had I thought of this or if you'd posted it earlier.

    WHERE WERE YOU, MAN? WHERE WERE YOU?!

    Great post, and I'll be using it this weekend
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    Default Re: T-MAL'S "magic 5-word phrase" to overcome almost any sh!t test

    If I can figure out how to time-travel, I'll go back to back about a month or so ago & post this THEN.



    LOL!!

    I actually just realized how often I use this...

    Last night I was at my Fiancee's house having Mexican night w/ Margaritas & all.

    I was being goofy & she threw out a playful sh!t test & told me to sit at the other end of the couch.

    So I looked at her & used the magic phrase...

    That's when I realized I needed to write a thread about it.

    But like I said, if I can figure out time-travel, I'll hook you up a month ago!



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    Default Re: T-MAL'S "magic 5-word phrase" to overcome almost any sh!t test

    Almost a bit similar to Mystery's "Do you want to kiss me?" kiss close line.

    Will keep this in my back pocket, very nice thread!
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    Default Re: T-MAL'S "magic 5-word phrase" to overcome almost any sh!t test

    Joshua Pellicer talks about one in "The Tao Of Badass" too... when a girl is looking at your eyes & mouth in a triangular pattern.

    That's when he says, "It's OK"
    She says, "What's OK"
    He says "You can kiss me... I want to kiss you too".

    This one & Mystery's "Do you want to kiss me" are definitely good when the attraction & Tension is building.

    I use my "Shut up and kiss me" phrase at a completely different point, which is in the middle of a sh!t test.


    One other difference is, I'm not "asking" them if they want to kiss me.... I'm telling them to kiss me.

    This also sets up a strong, confident, dominant frame.


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    Default Re: T-MAL'S "magic 5-word phrase" to overcome almost any sh!t test

    I was never comfortable with mystery's way because you are asking. I think its more confident to cockily say "YOU want to kiss ME."

    Tmal i can see your response being great for trouble. I.E. when she starts complaining about petty things or makes needless drama.

    Great response! Bravo!
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