I know the forum's rules state NOT to make a thread's title vague, and I know mine one seems so, but believe me, it's not more vague than this thread itself!
Here's the deal: I wanna get help, I need someone to support me, I feel like I'm losing my mind!
Short story: I'm 20, kind of your average Joe; the problem is I'm not only single, but alone! very alone, and it feels worse each day... give me some advice, how to start picking up women, befriending obstacles, meaning getting to make friends with random guys that could help me go out more, that kind of stuff...
For those of you who want to get to know someone new today, please read further; others, don't hesitate to leave me a reply, a word of advice, an idea, anything! thanks!
My name's Andrei, I'm 20 yo, I'm at the University,in my second year of Networking and Telecommunications, in France;
I came here when I started Univeristy, and since then my world changed 180°;
Originally from Romania, I did my last year of highschool in Italy, did an internship in the UK and learned some russian on the side, I've been living in France for the last 2 years now; I've been multiple times national champion in programming, website design and UI development; I guess that's where I get my lack of social skills from, thanks a lot, education system!
I currently study for my major, and also have a small company in web design, for a little pocket money so I can afford to go out from time to time.
I'm 1.82m, 73kg, almost fit, I jog and work out when I find the time, I try to eat healthy but I usually eat what I have in the fridge :/
I don't have a car, I travel by bus, I don't own expensive clothes; the most expensive thing with me, in my everyday life is my tablet; I don't have a good fashion sense, and my french is not perfect yet.
You see, I don't really have friends here, except for the other geeks in my class, which aren't useful at all at helping me integrate, or meet girls;
3 months ago, I discovered The Game; I've read it all, I got the refferences and found everything I could on the subject; I'm currently reading MM, FS and I have some RSD material, too; I have DVDs full of workshops and stuff, I didn't get to learn it all yet, rather around 15% of all I have, actually;
I don't only have PU material: NLP, manipulation, psychology, hypnosis, bodylanguage, body posture, subconcious communication, too ... basically everything I could find related to the matter.
My history with girls would not fill a travel company flyer: I had one gf during hs, and the relationship lasted for 2 weeks, basically. I wasn't fit, I was always at the computer, learning or playing online games, so not many chances to meet the love of my life :P
I've kissed a girl for the first time last summer, and never had sex. I feel stupid even thinking this could matter, but hey, I'll throw it out there.
Even so, I feel incredibly confident in myself, that I have changed a huge amount in these last 3 months, so getting past the kiss would be no problem now, if I could get that far, meaning probably if I were back in my country, where I don't have the language barrier anymore (as I'm going to go this summer again).
So far I've been out like 3-4 times this YEAR (!!! ), but I honestly tried learning as much as I could and take advantage of EVERY second I was out; the time before the last, I got 3 numbers from 3 girls, that were all in the same set (I've only opened their 3-set that evening), and the last time I went out, I made out with 2 girls, at this large college party, but got no numbers and the girls were all drunk;
During daygame, I met 3 girls on the bus I take each day (2h commute per day), one of which was single and interested, and she kept texting me, but I wasn't interested (I didn't know by the time, that I should just use the opportunity to do some research, and learn more about this)
OK, that's basically my life;
Oh, one more thing: there are no people here that know about PUAs and such, so no real wingman available, just the basic help I could get from guys: tell them what to do and how, what to say etc. each time I need their help.
I feel this could be my only chance to not go completely nuts!
I need your help, guys!
Thanks in advance dudes!