Re: Is being "the flirt" a bad thing.
I have this same issue, I'm always known as a flirt and attraction is there, but I'm known as "that guy" as well around my social circles, especially when women new to the group start liking me the other girls always say "oh he is just a flirt" or "he is just a man whore, watch out for him".
I have spent the last 3 or 4 months thinking about the solution to this and basically I'm thinking that these girls think it is their right to flirt with you rather than something you give them. We should figure out how to challenge them and make them work for our attention.
KISS - Keep it Stupid Simple