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    Default Quick DHV story? Feeling the Vibe

    So I got a quick dhv story not sure if this is a DHV but you guys tell me.

    So I was gaming this HB8 that works at the Mall and called her work last week or whatever after I came in. I talked to her and told her I was coming in Friday.

    Yeah never came because I was feeling too AFC and getting Oneitis for this chick so I backed out knowing it would be a sure fail.


    But anyway just went in there today browsing around and right when I walk in I see her! So I immediately walk in her direction and she gives me a nasty look and immediately walks off before I was even half way there.

    Definite IOD. So I played it way cool and started hitting up the Guy there and was just having fun since she obviously wasn't in the mood.

    This is largely thanks to doing 26+ Approaches now and being able to feel out the vibe. I didn't even say anything to her and was just totally cool with the guy.

    Now normally I would have totally went AFC as I have in the past and tried something with a girl that is usually unresponsive and get the norm cold shoulder from her.

    Knowing this I think I DHV'd her by ignoring her (high status) and may try to talk to her next time. What do you guys think I should do?

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    Default Re: Quick DHV story? Feeling the Vibe

    If you want this chick,next time you see her,you should talk to her,but don't make a big deal out of it.

    Just start talking and mention somewhere in the conversation that you couldn't make it,because you had a thing.Don't make a big deal out of it and don't go into detail,because it will feel like you're making excuses.Just say that you had this thing you couldn't miss,be very calm.

    You can also add something like "But i can make it up to you,I'll let you buy me a dinner" or something like that.

    Next time,don't chicken out,always have your Mindset in a challenge mode(cocky funny),that's what i do.Obviously everyone is a bit nervous,but when i do,i just write down everything i can talk to her on paper(don't do canned material if you're already in the comfort) and go for it.

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    Default Re: Quick DHV story? Feeling the Vibe

    Quote Originally Posted by Ra1d View Post
    If you want this chick,next time you see her,you should talk to her,but don't make a big deal out of it.

    Just start talking and mention somewhere in the conversation that you couldn't make it,because you had a thing.Don't make a big deal out of it and don't go into detail,because it will feel like you're making excuses.Just say that you had this thing you couldn't miss,be very calm.

    You can also add something like "But i can make it up to you,I'll let you buy me a dinner" or something like that.

    Next time,don't chicken out,always have your Mindset in a challenge mode(cocky funny),that's what i do.Obviously everyone is a bit nervous,but when i do,i just write down everything i can talk to her on paper(don't do canned material if you're already in the comfort) and go for it.

    Yeah nice to hear some constructive feedback. The reason why I didn't go was because I would had to have to re-schedule my whole day and spend way too much time waiting around when I had things to do. The point is it wasn't convenient due to logistics and couldn't work out the logistics of what we would do that night if anything.

    I am thinking more in terms of the logistical side of things now that my game is improving. This means I am not as desperate anymore to just sacrifice for just anyone but literally if it makes sense to me, I'll do it.

    The main problem is the logistical aspect of her location since it is a bit out of my way for my lifestyle and even if we got a Day 2 set up I would be going out my way to see her. I don't wanna do this as I would rather get to know someone that is closer to my location.

    That being said I am glad you said this because I think I will move on from this one. The bad thing is I put something on layaway there and I will have to go and keep paying on it every two weeks so I can't avoid seeing her.

    If I see her again I will probably talk to her if she is displaying open body language. But I am not going to go out of my way for her if she walks away from me when I come in the store, or she acts like I am a stranger. I might say hi and see what kind of mood she is in and then probably mention why I didn't come in Friday when I promised.

    The thing of it is I wasn't thinking when I told her that I would come Friday on my day off since that is totally not what I wanted. I meant to say Monday but since I was nervous and honestly I just called her at work because my phone game sucks and I was trying to improve my phone game since I keep getting clammed up.

    I was pretty clammed up when I called her too this is why I knew it was early signs of oneitis. But if anything happens I will definitely go for it if the logistics are there.


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