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    Default What do I say when I first meet her?

    I don't really know what to open with when I first meet a girl. I know I'm supposed to banter, but I can't always think of something. I find it difficult!

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    Default Re: What do I say when I first meet her?

    Never use pick up lines. But you can definitely use canned openers such as these ones I'll give you. Or you can just use as a template and change it up to fit your style.

    EXAMPLE:

    The Compliment Opener (Very Effective when used properly)
    YOU: "Hey I like your hair, how long did it take you" (The girl I used this one loved it)
    YOU: "Hey you're hot" Just did this one and was able to Kino right away with no resistance and complete compliance.
    YOU: "You look like fun" (Did this to a 3 set and was in there like a Natural Charmer)
    These are not pick up lines but situational openers I have used to game women.

    Keep in mind don't keep using the same line over and over. It will get boring and mundane to you which will also transfer those feelings to her.

    Use a different opener every time and it is okay to reuse openers you like or work well but try to use them infrequently to avoid burnt out. Challenge yourself to be creative.

    The Question Opener (Love this one, works super good too!)
    YOU: "Hey can I ask you a question? Are you free tonight?" (You are opening her up to close her, perfect!)
    YOU: "Who did you come here with?" (if she is alone)
    YOU: "Quick question, what does it take to impress you?" (Challenge statement use only when you are ready)

    By asking a question opener you put her on the spot and the convo flows so smoothly after that for me. These are some of the openers I use. Personally I make up my own openers as I go and have picked the ones that girls have responded to the most favorably. You have to come up with your own to, to be original. But feel free to use these to get going.

    Also once you start getting a feel for what works and what doesn't you can tweak it to make it better. Just remember to open her by either asking a question or giving a compliment these are the two best ways I constantly use off the top of my head to open.

    Oh and now that I am getting more confident I go for kino in my opener depending on positioning. To the 3 set I didn't but to the 2 set I did. Just don't do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable because then you will be approval seeking and you will guaranteed not find it from her when you are acting needy.

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    Default Re: What do I say when I first meet her?

    I don't really have anything AGAINST pick-up lines - as long as they are delivered properly and with confidence without coming off as sleazy.

    I typically go sarging at nightclubs so with that said, here are some of my personal favorite openers:

    The wingman Opener:
    YOU: "Hey girls I'm tonight's designated wingman, nice to meet you" (Shake their hand to get first contact).

    or

    YOU: "See my friend over there? He doesn't think I can approach 3 beautiful ladies like you and dance with them. Let's prove him wrong"

    The Fail-safe Opener:
    This one is absolutely my personal favorite because it never fails (as long as you adjust accordingly). Field-tested it extensively at clubs.

    YOU: "Hey I have a quick question: do you know how much a polar bear weighs?"
    HB: "No...*might look at you weird*
    YOU: *smirk* "Just enough to break the ice. Hi I'm _____" (Shake their hand while smiling confidently).

    If you encounter any sh1t tests (usually the girls go "omg that's so lame" or "does that actually work for you", I usually smile confidently and tell them "Well we're talking now, aren't we"

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    Default Re: What do I say when I first meet her?

    What to say when you first meet her depends of situation, where and when you meet her if she drunk, or you meet her in the street or in disco with loud music.

    Anyway, giving compliments are always good, but some girls don't like to give them compliments about their nice look, because they are beautiful and they know that off course, but every girl like to give her compliment about her, for example, hair, dress.

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    Default Re: What do I say when I first meet her?

    Well I can only offer up this piece of advice, do not ask for the number right away. I did on a few occasions and i felt like a fool afterwards because I realized that it came off as creepy, but it was still a good confidence booster.


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