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    Default Re: I suck at approaching on the dance floor!

    Just chill, feel the beat, and have fun. Always be dancing with someone, even if its not the girl you want to take home. Put the onus on her to keep your attention. Don't talk. Act like your happily surprised to see each chick. When you've got the right one get a little closer spin her around so she's grinding you, put one arm around her hips, one on her shoulder and say "You don't seem like the type to.. (and it really doesn't matter what you say after that). The less you say the more its on her to suggest going somewhere else to get to know you, especially if its loud.

    For the convo:
    "Let's go somewhere and blah blah"
    "Yeah"
    .. Short walk
    "Hey"
    "Hey"
    "I'm Julie/Sarah/target"
    "Cool, your cute"
    "So.. Where are you from"
    "Here. Ever wear your hair up/down you have gorgeous cheek bones"
    "Blah blah..."
    "Let me buy you a drink. So what.... (Ask an open ended question or a couple, let her talk for 10-15mins, take control and say lets go dance)

    Dance for a bit, drink more, dance more, drink more, talk little, easiest closing line:

    "Let's share a cab"

    Rinse, wash, and repeat sir. If you don't know how to dance though, learn!

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    Default Re: I suck at approaching on the dance floor!

    When you FIRST meet a girl:

    Never immediately offer to buy a drink. (You don't want to be the guy who isn't cool enough for her to hang with unless he buys her attention)

    Don't ask a bunch of "job interview" style questions.. Where ya from? What do you do? Where do you work? etc. - (Boring... she'll lose interest within the first minute.)

    Never compliment her about her "looks". (Every other schmuck is gonna do that, & you'll just be another.)

    Never worry about or try to "have a conversation". (Save the "rapport" for the proper time... which is AFTER you build curiosity & attraction.)

    Confidence, body language & flirting are all you need in the beginning.



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    Default Re: I suck at approaching on the dance floor!

    I agree on all the above points but I say after a half hour - hour of hanging, always buy her a drink. Depending on where in the U.S./World I am I'll tailor the timeframe. Buying a her a drink doesn't mean your paying for time, especially if a rapport has been established. Not buying a girl a drink means either your poor or worse, lacking refinement.

    Girls always without fail ask what I do. I have little interest in what they do for the most part so I don't ask. I'm not tailoring myself to follow an exact algorithm to get laid, just following what genuinely attracts and interests me. I say leave it up to the woman to supply all the fillers, the whats your name, where are you from, what do you do, and really focus on the iotas that will make that hook-up memorable.

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    Default Re: I suck at approaching on the dance floor!

    I gotcha...
    I lost track of who was saying which lines there.

    And yeah I agree that after you've spent some time with her & making a connection, then it's ok to buy a drink. Although I still give HER a compliance test before I do...

    Something like, "I'm gonna grab another drink. I'll get you a refill too, but first you have to gimme a kiss on the cheek." (or do a little dance, or gimme a double high-five, or whatever...)
    Just to make it playful & to establish that I'm not like the rest of the typical guys who she's used to encountering.



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    Default Re: I suck at approaching on the dance floor!

    Hmm compliance test learn something new every day I'm gonna try that out. I guess on a smaller scale I do try to gauge how interested she is with little tests (if she asks my name, her body language, etc.), but I've never tried to classically condition a prospective hook-up. I really like that, thanks!

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    Default Re: I suck at approaching on the dance floor!

    Lol I think I might just be tight cus I never buy a drink for a girl, every now and then I might buy one if I'm on a date but in a bar I just don't.........I am a very poor student tho lol

    Linking x

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    Default Re: I suck at approaching on the dance floor!

    You guys have got this nailed down to a science.

    I prefer getting other people to buy me drinks. Saves money.

    I like the peck on the cheek/high five compliance test. It comes out of nowhere, it incentivises, it kinos and does it all in a fun way. If you're not sure if you've built up enough rapport to go for a kiss I'd go with a hug- studies show hugs release a neurochemical called oxytocin which is responsible for feelings of trust and attractiveness.

    "Let's share a cab" is also a wicked close.
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