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  1. #1
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    Cool I challenge anyone with AA to read this!

    Here is my challenge for guys with Approach Anxiety.

    Alright, so almost all of us have or have had massive aa. I can understand that, I still have it and it used to be really bad for me. I want to share an exercise that I did to reduce it massively.

    Go to a mall, street, whatever, as long as there are a lot of women there for you to practice on. Go up to them and say, "Hey, excuse me, you're cute" and walk away. You are throwing a direct opener, but are outcome independent, because no matter what she says you are going away. Plus doing so you will realize that lot of them respond well. It usually brightens up their day and can be rather fun.

    Warning: At first doing this will be really scary. I felt like i was dying, my heart was pounding hard, it felt as though I was going to tackle a bear or something!!!

    You just have to grab your balls and do it. You will be much stronger at the end emotionally.

    If this is too much for you, start by asking questions like, the time, directions things like that. Then start this excercise.

    Good luck fellas!

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    I'm gonna try that just for the fun, as my aa is getting better.

    Anyone ever go to V's blog? He went up to like 40 women and flat out asked, "wanna f***?".

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    Wow - that is pretty crazy. How did it turn out?

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    Great example of how to overcome aa. I personally think doing something less offensive would be better... because my rule during pick up (and especially when I am warming up trying to get blow out) is to never insult the women. Regardless of how she responds, you should attempt to make her feel better than before she talked to you. As style so elegantly does - if it goes completely bad, your response should be "It was a pleasure meeting you."

    PB

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    PUA Bill:

    Agreed. However, V's antics had quite an intended comic tonality to them.

    BTW, do you frequent V's forums? I can swear seeing your name , PUA Bill, there,

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    rdc - I am not sure.. I have posted on other forums in the past, but it could also be another Bill...

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    I go with your cute over wanna f***.

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    Default Re: I challenge anyone with AA to read this!

    Thank you

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    Default Re: I challenge anyone with AA to read this!

    Another GREAT windup that I teach my guys when we go out: IT goes like this..
    You run up and get in front of the girl and say "look don't mean to be weird but, uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh hhhh" and by that point shes laughing her a$$ off and you feel good about just having a conversation, I always tell my guys you should be able to tell me 5 things about her when you leave the set, and never eject early, STAY put until you #close or she walks away.

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    Default Re: I challenge anyone with AA to read this!

    LOL! i think it's one way of increasing your self confidence to approach girls.


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