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Thread: ANyone have any encouraging approach stories?

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    Default ANyone have any encouraging approach stories?

    I know it would kinda make me feel more confident if I heard some success stories of approaches. Anyone got any?

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    Default Re: ANyone have any encouraging approach stories?

    just basic one
    i was always talking to this one girl at a fast food place at the foodcourt of a mall, ive talked to her once or twice then i finally took her on a date. shes my current girlfriend, heres what i said

    me: Hey whats up
    her: Oh hi!! you want to eat?
    me: no (smile)
    her: (smile)
    me: what time you finish tonight?
    her: 8
    me: couple of my friends are performing on the street, come see them after
    her: ok where?
    me: just upstairs exit, infront of the mall
    her: hmm, are you performing too? (smile)
    me: im injured today so i cant, ill just be watching, i gotta go now ok, 8 o clock be upstairs
    her: ok!
    (i walk away because my friend was calling me from afar, then i walked back)
    me: hey, i forgot (i really did)
    her: what?
    me: give me your number
    her: ### ### ####
    me: cool, mmm...
    her:...
    me: your name? eheh (funny smile)
    her: you forgot?!?!?!?
    me: so what its not like you remember my name :P
    her: DAX!!
    me: shit (smile)... whatever, ill call you later
    her: hmph!!!

    I took her on a date after we watch my friends, then after..i held her hand, i hugged her, then i kissed her to end the night.

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    Default Re: ANyone have any encouraging approach stories?

    The key is too not let think; just react. This is why it's important to follow the 3 second rule if you have a problem with Approach Anxiety. Here's a story, last night i went out to a place i havent been to in over a year; it had changed drastically to say the least. it wasnt packed like it used to be, and my wing and i were contemplating headed somewhere closer to home. once the music started getting good, he found a target and i spotted one. she was all by herself, and easily a 9. i approached, ran a bit of cocky/ funny, and neg'd her some. make sure you do not ask her name until after you gets yours. dont go in with 21 questions; ask a few things here and there; build off of the conversation thread, and transition (when ready) to other topics. i made sure not to ask her to do anything, but tell her what to do "lets talk over here where we can actually hear each other" or "dance with me". i had a bunch of ioi's going ( constant eye contact, passed the hold hands/ squeeze test, grinding on me, following me, had her laughing the whole time-to name a few). at the end of the night, i number closed, and we made out. looking back, i could have made out with her sooner, but since shes 12 years older, i played the age respect card way more than i should have. truth be told, if i had not been the driver yesterday, i could have gone home with her. even after she left, she was blowing my phone up with messages and how she wants to see me again sooner than next week. so i hope that inspired you a bit The Pupil. dont over analyze/ over think a situation; just go for it. do not think, just react appropriately. you will not no whats possible unless you try and push the pace.

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    Default Re: ANyone have any encouraging approach stories?

    Quote Originally Posted by ThePupil View Post
    I know it would kinda make me feel more confident if I heard some success stories of approaches. Anyone got any?
    What do you consider success? Getting laid? Getting numbers? Overcoming aa? Just plain looking good running game ie validation? By the way confidence is brought by success which can only come after experiencing failure. So be prepared to fail then you will succeed then you become confident because you know and understand failure. It's hard to say but you can't strait up feel confident without going through some hard knocks. But if you prepare for the hard knocks you might do better than you think thus causing a surge of confidence therefore bringing you what you want. I had no confidence when I started now I walk around like I own the place wherever I am at doing approaches. You have to get past the fear of AA once you do that approaching won't bother you anymore with all these so called thoughts of "what do I say, what if she rejects me, what if she doesn't like me, what if she slaps me, what if she yells at me, etc"

    Success depends on the individual but I will tell you many PUA's here will tell you as long as you approach and build a little attraction you are successful more than most guys out there with all the muscles, money, and status but rely heavily on their image to get women (natural game) and don't approach out of fear or approach naturally out of desire.

    This is why I became a PUA for the same reason because no matter how many times hot women approached me or called me hot I still never had the guts to do cold approach or warm approach.

    Basically if you are looking for encouragement to go out there just look at the field reports. Look at some of my recent field reports since that would be the best story you could find rather than me hashing it out again.

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    Default Re: ANyone have any encouraging approach stories?

    I like mackdaddylions perspective on this one, confidence will only come from experience. but I must say that the sets that are the most fun are the ones you blow out completely (not because you failed, but because you can look back at them and have a good laugh) being good is not about never failing, but rather its about not letting failure stop you from achieving the level of success you want.

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    Default Re: ANyone have any encouraging approach stories?

    couldn't agree more with @meteora...when I completely screw up an approach I'll literally start laughing at myself on the spot and call myself out. Sometimes I think people take themselves too seriously. If you can look back on some mistakes, laugh about them and learn from them...you're golden!
    "She'll forgive you for being a man...but she WON'T forgive you for being a p*ssy"

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    Default Re: ANyone have any encouraging approach stories?

    Here's something pretty encouraging. Haven't had a date in 10 years got into the game last year and went on my first date today since getting in the game. Finally secured a successful Day 2 and even though I didn't get laid it felt great.

    Some girls were following me around till they saw I had a date! Girls stopped following me around after my date got there thankfully. Went to my previously planned day game spot of a Holiday Event and it went smashingly well. Met her last night at a Club and she is older than me. Nice feeling to hold her hand, have her grabbing me in public, etc. Makes me feel like not such a loser anymore. Got a good night kiss and probably going to start dating her. She tried to flake on me but I just held my cool guy frame and finally got her out. Man I got a few looks too. Felt great. Go for the Day 2 right away or shortly after since this has really launched my texting game to the next level without having to constantly get validation and being too response driven by text.


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