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    Post Do you train your flirting skills?

    is there some method for practicing and training some skills?
    like body language and voice tone, calming down nervousness. or do you guys just keep trying girl after girl, then eventually you get better at it

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    Default Re: Do you train your flirting skills?

    Just girl after girl there's a reason not everyone is good at this, it's because it takes balls, you have to be able to deal with the fact that there is going to be a lot of rejection involved, don't get me wrong the better you get the less rejection, but it never goes away completely, it just stops hurting lol it's worth it tho

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    Default Re: Do you train your flirting skills?

    I flirt ALL THE TIME!
    It's become part of my personality, so it's pretty much a natural instinct.

    But by doing so, it keeps my flirting skills sharp.

    You're correct about body language being important. THAT & confidence are the keys to successful flirting.


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    Default Re: Do you train your flirting skills?

    Agreed with T-Mal. Recently, I too have begun to just flirt with every single girl there is. I've discovered two things: One, it makes them more entertained. Two, they are more likely to ask me to do things with them, as has happened yesterday and will continue tonight.

    It's like Hitler's Big Lie: If you say it and do it enough times, people will begin to believe it.
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    Default Re: Do you train your flirting skills?

    the best way to train your flirting skills is to make female friends (girls you've friendzoned and would never sleep with) and just be playful around them, tease them and have fun with it. just because these girls are "below your standards" doesn't mean you can't joke around with them and practice on them

    they will enjoy the attention your giving them and you will be getting better at flirting. plus these girls are great for when you need social support or even to take on "practice dates" (getting practice going out and having fun with girls) and can even make good pivots.

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    Default Re: Do you train your flirting skills?

    What meteora said. Friendzones can actually be really useful if you play them right. I flirt with all of my attractive friends- even guys occasionally. Knowing that there's no actual sexual interest takes loads of pressure off. Good flirting is about being fun and playful.
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    Default Re: Do you train your flirting skills?

    wow thanks guys, this really helps a lot. great feedback as always. a good point about being playful around girls youve friendzoned, honestly i just stay away from them, they become too attached. but yeah it does make sense if i can get practice out of it. thanks!

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    Default Re: Do you train your flirting skills?

    I make it fun, I have some lines that I genuienly find funny and so when I deliver them they're smooth and natural. The only way is to go out, find gorgeous girls and go for it. I like mental practices like creative visualization and stuff, but with no field practice there's no context to "mentally" practice

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    Default Re: Do you train your flirting skills?

    You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. Go out and flirt! The worst that can happen is you're in the same situation before you flirt.

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    Default Re: Do you train your flirting skills?

    HunterKiller, you are right about flirting with certain male friends. I worked with a gay guy and we would flirt all the time and it made the other girls there way more fun and flirty towards me. They ate it up.
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