Just something I thought of today.
So, for many newbies, they learn how important body language is in an interaction, but it can be kind of hard to remember to focus on if you're in the moment talking to a girl, especially if you're really nervous and trying to think of things to keep the conversation going, your body language and eye contact will rarely cross your mind.
So what can we do? How can we specifically work on our body language while getting her number so when you do approach your body language is automatic? Well, I have the solution. Simply get the number... without saying a word. WHAT!? "But scguitar, that can't be possible, right?" you may be thinking. Well, the proof is right here: Getting Girls' Phone Numbers Without Talking - YouTube
Why does this work? I theorize the fact that since you're not speaking, you create this aura of mystery around yourself, making the girl want more. And if your voice gets high or shaky when you talk to girls, this keeps you from talking like an idiot or saying stupid sh!t. Now, will you make a deep connection and make her your girlfriend from not speaking? Who knows; I have yet to try this since I'm recovering from surgery on my lip and I have a cold, so I don't feel like it.
Yes, by not saying a word to the girl while getting her number, we eliminate the focus and fear on what you should say, and focus on what to do: Body posture, eye contact, facial expressions, Kino, etc.
Let me know your thoughts on it.