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    Default Meeting girl on way to class!

    Alright, so there's this girl that I always see on my university's campus, and she is adorable, and I'd love to get to know her. I've noticed that we have class in buildings close to each other at the same time on Tuesdays and Thursdays, so I'd be able to walk with her to the class and introduce myself. I was thinking of going along the lines of this, with a bantersome closer. I plan on talking to her like a minute before we split off to our class.

    One of my friends actually knows her and told me her name, so I decided to go with this as an introduction. Keep in mind, she has a last name that could be a first name just like me.

    "Hey, I see you around campus all the time but I don't even know you're name. I'm Derek."
    I hear her name and smile.
    "What's your last name?"
    Smile again.
    "Oh yeah? My last name is Will. Since my last name sounds like a first name, sometimes I get called it and it's so frustrating... I doubt you can relate though. Well, I gotta go to class. It was nice meeting you, (Insert her last name here)!"

    What do you guys think?

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    Default Re: Meeting girl on way to class!

    It's too "safe" & generic.
    You need to ignite a spark of curiosity right from the beginning.

    Rather than saying that, you should try something that will stand out & get her attention & make her laugh. Something that she'll think about all day.

    Something like: "You look guilty... I bet you did something you weren't supposed to, didn't ya!? Come on, you can tell me; I'm good at keeping secrets. No, wait! lemme guess... it's not that you did something wrong, so to speak... it's that you didn't do laundry, so you're wearing the same underwear from yesterday."

    Then wink & smile at her.

    Wait for a moment for her to react/respond & then introduce yourself. "Hahah I couldn't help it, I had to razz you; I'm Derek."

    THAT will make a much stronger impact on her than the typical "hi, what's your name?" approach.



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    Default Re: Meeting girl on way to class!

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    It's too "safe" & generic.
    You need to ignite a spark of curiosity right from the beginning.

    Rather than saying that, you should try something that will stand out & get her attention & make her laugh. Something that she'll think about all day.

    Something like: "You look guilty... I bet you did something you weren't supposed to, didn't ya!? Come on, you can tell me; I'm good at keeping secrets. No, wait! lemme guess... it's not that you did something wrong, so to speak... it's that you didn't do laundry, so you're wearing the same underwear from yesterday."

    Then wink & smile at her.

    Wait for a moment for her to react/respond & then introduce yourself. "Hahah I couldn't help it, I had to razz you; I'm Derek."

    THAT will make a much stronger impact on her than the typical "hi, what's your name?" approach.

    Hmmm. alright.

    How about this one.

    "Y'know, I see you around campus all the time but I don't even know your name... You're not a spy, right? I've dealt with way too many in my past and I'll tell you now that I'm just not emotionally prepared for another... Haha, I couldn't help it. I'm Derek, by the way."

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    Default Re: Meeting girl on way to class!

    You're thinking on the right track...

    But the whole "emotionally unprepared" comment could make her subconsciously think you're "weak" or unsure of yourself; so I'd definitely scrap that part.

    If you go with the "spy" idea, ramp it up & make it more fun.

    "Hey, are you spying on me? Did someone hire you to follow me, or are you doing it yourself? Either way it's cool. In fact, I'll give you my schedule to make your job easier... Besides, I got nothin' to hide." *wink/smile

    That's gonna express more humor AND confidence.


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    Default Re: Meeting girl on way to class!

    Great tips, thanks for the response!


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