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Thread: turned down 2 girls and need to know how to talk to them now

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    Default turned down 2 girls and need to know how to talk to them now

    basically, 2 girls i know through a friend phoned me out of the blue told me to bring a duvet and sleep at theirs that night, they were very drunk and very forward. they are both very sexy and have very high sex drives and not afraid to boast about their sexual conquests, basically they are male players in a female body.

    1st and only time i met them - they offered me and my mate over for drinks at their place, got there and straight away they were flirting with each other basically ignoring us for a bit, then they started touching each other etc, we carried on drinking not really paying too much attention to them, i was txting another girl at the time too, we then played truth or dare which they suggested, everything they done and said was sexual i mean it was intense! anyway this was only leading oneway and i left my boxers there on the way out a few hours later.

    so we added each other on facebook, my 1st message was can i have my boxers back at some point? which she said yeah sure.
    i said ok, ill drop by monday or she could drop them to me if she wanted, she never replied.
    i didnt go over monday either, so i ask to swap numbers gave her mine and she deleted me off facebook.
    the other girl was still on it, but i deleted her about a week ago, then the phone call came 2 days ago, she said i should grab a duvet and come over to sleep with them, i was sleeping at the time and said it was a bit short notice, she then said i was only in bed masturbating so i may in well come over to sleep with them, i stupidly said no, she asked if i even wanted my underwear back and that she'd cleaned them for me (they werent the cleanest or newest btw) i said yeah they were my favourite pair and i defo wanted them back and thanks for washing, she then said if i ever wanted to see them both just to let them know and put down the phone immediatley.

    so, im terrible at texting and phone isnt the best either, facebook i always ruin it, in person tho im bloody brilliant. so how do i go about contacting them without scaring them off? do i text or re-add them on facebook? what do i say? phone them please help.
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    Default Re: turned down 2 girls and need to know how to talk to them now

    or could i just knock on her door? i used to do it alot in the past but stopped for years and i was younger back then

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    Default Re: turned down 2 girls and need to know how to talk to them now

    Well to me it seems that they are calling the shots and you're following their lead. So if they decide to get bored and move on they'll do just that. They sucked you into their world. Not the other way around. If you want things on your terms you'll have to suck them into your world. Anytime they make such an advance on you and you say no then they interpret it that you're gay. Lol I know. Women are frickin cocky. To even think a guy wasn't interested is blasphemy. Or they'll interpret it that you're weak and shy.

    On the other end if you say yes then the power is all theirs and they choose when they want to play with you or not. So things are still on their terms. The way to go about this to avoid both scenarios is to have them EARN you. Be challenging. Everyone likes a little challenge.

    Have the attitude (not verbal) that "Ok, I'm down. But first you must do something for me." Maybe have them cook for you or wear a certain outfit otherwise you won't be turned on. Let them make an effort.

    As for now contact them that you are going to pick up your boxers, but that they should make you a drink or food for having to go out of your way to get them back.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."


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