I don't have time to write a post in the new member intro thread, so I'll give a brief intro here and ask a couple of questions to help me in my dilemma, if thats all right?
I'm 23, I really never had success with woman. I've had a lot of woman flirt with me or check me out, but I guess I was always too shy or socially anxious to go any further. I usually would get put in the friend zone and it sucks! After being put in the friend zone, chicks would open up and we would joke about sex or relationships, but I couldn't really find a way to escalate the interaction. I'm really inexperienced sexually; the only times I could get a kiss or sex was if I was in a drunken high school party.
One example of being friend zoned: I was a friend with this one girl and I subtlety tried to escalate the interaction more sexually and she thought I was joking around and she said, "having sex or kissing you would be like doing that to my brother!" Imagine that! I'm so far in the friend zone, she thinks of me as a brother! Not cool.
There was a little intro about me; Basically, a lot of chicks check me out or find me attractive but I suck at pushing further.
Here's my problem now, there's a cashier in this store that really likes me. My friend gave her my number to text me without knowing.
Her first text (paraphrasing):I was wondering when we would get to talk! Tell me a little bit about yourself, besides being sooo attractive
Yesterday we were texting for a while and later in the day she asked me to come by the store to talk to her while she was closing. I was kind of nervous, but I remembered 3 second eye contact, alpha male body language, smiling, etc. The conversation went really well. I made her laugh and smile and she opened up well. Beginners luck? I hope not...
This is where I might have a little beta-ish. She asked me if I would want to watch a movie with her, I said yes and I asked which movie she wanted to watch (I'm nervous, but trying to keep my cool). She said to come to her house to watch a movie and she would text me today. I felt like I didn't lead the situation, but I'm new, so it's just a newbie mistake I guess.
So I need help flirting and escalating the situation and know when to go in for the kiss, etc. My friend that knows her, said she's really into me, as in probably wanting me to sleep with her. I'm nervous as hell because I haven't been in this kind of situation for about 4 years. I must be good at faking it though...
I hope someone on here can help me out A.S.A.P! I'm hoping by 8 o'clock tonight I'll have a couple of tips?
Thanks so much I hope you didn't mind my first post being so long...