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    Default Should you ever tell a woman stories about being desirable?

    So in the concept of DHVing a woman I was thinking of maybe telling a HB I am talking to about some of my old classic stories with another woman that never got with me but was obsessed.

    I was hoping this would help me dhv without telling her about my job, how much I make, my hobbies, etc. I would like to remain a good catch so I didn't want to reveal anything too personal unless she really asks.

    After doing my opener and checking compliance to see if she wants to talk I was thinking of doing it. The last time I talked to this girl I am interested in she wasn't very chatty and pinging off me more than I was off her. That's why I think it might be a good time for having a light convo with her and revealing more about myself to help build comfort.

    After the opener and talking for a bit I would say something like

    "You know the hottest girl I ever dated chased me around for 6 months and I never even felt anything for her."

    Then after that instead of focusing on myself, get her involved with a follow up after seeing her reaction by saying

    "But you are a little more interesting than her so I might actually think about giving you a chance." Then say
    "As long as I don't lose interest."

    Yeah won't be the exact words I use just a general guideline for my own canned material to DHV her. Just something short and sweet but I will not try to give a her a big long story ie be boring and dlv myself. So what do you guys think of using this on a HB I already know and talk to frequently to help build attraction?

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    Default Re: Should you ever tell a woman stories about being desirable?

    IDK man itd be better to demonstrate your desirability silently then verbally bragging. Depending on what your doing i.e getting some other girl to sort of flirt with you in her presence but non-purposefully and not directly flirting with her....but then you'd possibly be stirring up jealously....sort of a honey pot to get into.

    Look at it from the opposite end, would you want some woman bragging to you in the same light about some guy?

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    Default Re: Should you ever tell a woman stories about being desirable?

    Quote Originally Posted by Dj Chill View Post
    IDK man itd be better to demonstrate your desirability silently then verbally bragging. Depending on what your doing i.e getting some other girl to sort of flirt with you in her presence but non-purposefully and not directly flirting with her....but then you'd possibly be stirring up jealously....sort of a honey pot to get into.

    Look at it from the opposite end, would you want some woman bragging to you in the same light about some guy?
    Good point, I like your take on this. However I have already showed some pre-selection around her. I guess I should just keep having fun with her and not get serious or whatever since we are not together.

    I guess next time I will just tell her I missed her to see if I can qualify her somewhat. Other than that I know this thing between me and her keeps developing just wondering if there was a way I could qualify better?

    I mean women usually reject me in the end so maybe I could figure out how to better interpret their interest level? I don't really know a way to find out how interested women are to know if they will agree to give me their #? Any suggestions would help.

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    Default Re: Should you ever tell a woman stories about being desirable?

    The best indicators of interest are body language and eye contact as I'm sure you already know. I'll let you in on a little secret that I use to help keep that interest high.

    After the opener, get physical with the girl ASAP. Now I don't mean grab her ass, but socially acceptable physical moves. Here's what I do.

    For the sake of the example we'll say the girl is Hispanic

    Me: Opener

    Her: Blah Blah

    Me: cold read (Example: Your hair is really curly, you must be from the Dominican Republic)

    Her: *laugh* No, I'm actually from Puerto Rico blah blah

    Me: Oh cool, I'm Puerto Rican too. You get a hug for that. *give a quick hug*

    Now once you're out of the hug, the girl will be in shock that you hugged her and the positioning of your bodies will naturally be closer together.

    Anyway, that's just a tip on how to build more interest. There really is no sure fire way of knowing what a girl is thinking so your best bet is to just practice, and not over think things. The more you do sh1t, the better you'll get at it.

    Also, one last tip. If you're confident in who you are, and portray that by acting confident, women will qualify themselves. You don't need to think, how can I qualify this girl at this particular time? Women will naturally qualify themselves around you if you're confident, and bring them into your own world. How do you that? Easy just by being confident. How do you do that? Stand up straight, put a smile on your face, look straight when walking (not down), talk and lead the conversation. I'm not a good talker, so how do you lead the conversation? By pleasing yourself. Approach her to make yourself happy. Make the jokes you want to make, say the things you want to say, and just be you. That's what leading is.


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