I am sure this is a general problem that most many men have. during my attempts to seduce, women laugh and have a great time generally because I know how to crack a joke or two.. they give me the whole he must be a player line legit all the time/ I do get the whole your so annoying I want to punch you thing from them as well (might be a good/bad thing). The problem is I feel like I have a hard time closing on these women, some think I am arrogant when literally I am just trying to be myself.what are some ways to get around this? I've been looking a bit into the idea of building more comfort and being more chill but it doesn't come naturally to me. one of the girls that said that she wanted to hit me suggested I should stop acting like I am all that and just chill(kinda boring) what are your thoughts guys?