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    Default Is this an IOI (from girl I know from College)??

    wassup guys.

    So there is this girl i know from college and she is one of those girls that believes that the man should always text first or make the first move. she has just broken up with her boyfriend and has texted me for three days in a row.

    So because of her belief of the man should always text first should i take this as an ioi??

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    Default Re: Is this an IOI??

    This is more like compliance. Usually, you are supposed to text first because thats what a PUA does. But if she sets up rules and expects you to follow, this is bad.

    Try something cocky funny as your first text. Like just text "FIRST" and when she says'what?' Tell her you are texting FIRST like she asked. Also mention that she's weird for asking you to text that
    It kinda flips her rule on its head.

    Or you could send a text to her by accident. Like "Hey man... are you down for bungee jumping or not? I promise not to push you off this time." After she responds, tell her it was an accident and just continue on like normal. Dont even mention the first contact thing.

    You are kind of giving her what she wants but not completely in the way she wants it.

    EDIT: Sorry misread your post. Its fine to text first but make hanging with her priority. If she's already laying out rules for texting, than tread lightly in that area. Dont be too into texting.
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