I with Suave Kino I'm confused? Do you want to fark her? If so then you need to man up and set your priorities in that direction and stop the friendship talk because that will only make you buddies with her.
Sometimes as guys we get to caught up in the text cycle which doesn't get us any where. Tell yeah we can be friends but I still want to hit that after all I am a man as you say. Because if you don't someone else will. Stop tolerating her BS and if she still wants to play that friendship game move on.