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    tonystark88 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default would there ever be a time to tell a girl you aren't just looking for sex

    Would this work ever. If a girl thinks you are just into her for sex, to trip up her thinking process?

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    Default Re: would there ever be a time to tell a girl you aren't just looking for s

    In our generation, that's what most girls think of a guy now a days. Since most of those girls were heartbroken or heard stories of what guys done to other, so SOME of them don't give themself as easy as other girls would.

    One way is to friendzone them, do anything to make them think you're just friends. If you arn't looking for just sex, prove it. Make her know.
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    Default Re: would there ever be a time to tell a girl you aren't just looking for s

    well this girl tried to friendzone so i acted like it was no big deal and was gonna bounce . And she basically started sending all these messages begging me to become friends.

    I told her well didn't you say you didn't think guys and girls could be friends. She was giving all this stuff about how its hard but you can do it (she just got out of a relationship, we hooked up once , once not). I told her well I am and will always be a guy so cutting out physical interest in a mental skill I never learned.

    Once again she tried with the friend stuff. I acted like it was no big deal. Oh ok we will see. I suppose message me sometime when you have something fun to do.

    She says well I don't really ask people to hang out. I called her bluff since she could have easily just said I wanna be friends and move on but she sent message after message trying to get me to be friends and then pulls this crap.

    First I said a big LOL! and then I said I think we have different ideas of what friendship is .

    She responds back oh why you only want a friendship with kisses.

    I almost wanted to say say hey I just asked you to chill again I'm not trying to sleep with you or something to that affect. Something about how If she wants to be a friend then do it but I wont be the guy chasing her but not in those words.

    I said something about how well I've never heard of having a substantial friendship with another person where once person never asks the other to hang out. It ends up not being a friendship cause you don't hang out, which is ok no worries.

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    Default Re: would there ever be a time to tell a girl you aren't just looking for s

    Okay.. What exactly do you want from this ? I mean, some girls might think you just want sex, that's normal most of the girls now think that. So what do you want from her. To me that's a desperate girl. I would fuck and ditch her, simple as that. If you really want to hang out don't bring any of this sex stuff to the conversation, that's the only thing that'll make her think you're in it for the sex.

    So yeah.. What do you want from her anyways ?
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    Default Re: would there ever be a time to tell a girl you aren't just looking for s

    Oh I wanna date her but she wanted to friend zone me

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    Default Re: would there ever be a time to tell a girl you aren't just looking for s

    Quote Originally Posted by tonystark88 View Post
    Oh I wanna date her but she wanted to friend zone me
    Lose contact with her, and talk to her later on when you feel like it. If she's like that just move on. 3 billion girls to go bro.
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    Default Re: would there ever be a time to tell a girl you aren't just looking for s

    You're right. I thought we connected and she really made a case for a friendship when she could have just let me bounce. I will move on get romantic/sexual with other chicks but she seems fun enough to keep as a friend and try to reengage later.

    Any tips

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    Default Re: would there ever be a time to tell a girl you aren't just looking for s

    I heard a tip to put it back in your control is if you want to see her again, say blatantly "but i'm not sleeping/hooking up with you tonight." THEN YOU HAVE TO MEAN IT. Be flirty, whatever, but you can't go for the move that night. It puts the decision back in your power rather than letting her make the decisions and it puts the idea on her mind with a challenge of why not?

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    Default Re: would there ever be a time to tell a girl you aren't just looking for s

    When you say hook up do you mean sex? I'm only confused because she said you want to have a friendship with kisses?

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    Default Re: would there ever be a time to tell a girl you aren't just looking for s

    Well I guess she says she wants to be friends and then when I ask to do things she gives me bs excuses but then still texts me. I think if over time we hang out and formost ( I actually find myself into her) then i can change it, if not make a great friend. The problem is do I cut her off for a while after being friendzoned


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