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Thread: How should I respond if a woman asks "what do you do?"

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    Default How should I respond if a woman asks "what do you do?"

    Often it seems like this is a shit test but I also think it's just a common question. However, since I don't work at the moment I'm a bit sensitive to this. So what I would like to know is what is the best response if a woman asks me this question? Should I dance around it or say something like "I teach monkeys how to rollerblade."

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    Default Re: How should I respond if a woman asks "what do you do?"

    If its a flirty test/question say something at that level. What do I do? Alot of things..like to do coke..smoke pot...oh yeah did I mention whiskey?

    Ive had them play along like this towards me asking THEM questions along similar lines....go with it.

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    Default Re: How should I respond if a woman asks "what do you do?"

    i always tell them something completely random ie being a white slave trader, i think i ripped that straight from style but its funny ;p

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    Default Re: How should I respond if a woman asks "what do you do?"

    I think for the sake of your own anonymity later you should avoid answering it in a detailed way. You could say what you do but not which company it is for. If you provide a funny/sarcastic answer first, it will sound more personal than it is when you share your real title. If you are unemployed then the best answer is "I own my own business as a ________ (consultant works pretty good)." If you are trying to hook up as a ONS you can be dishonest but generally you want to be as truthful as possible. Ideally you want as many woman as possible in your life for as long as possible.

    Still, if a girl is BSC and you are immediately sorry you started something up with her, the last thing you want is for her to be able to come to your job, especially if you have a customer facing job. I would always have a canned funny response and then quickly try to get onto another topic. I hate the job interview questions because there's no attraction building happening. "What's your name? Where do you work?" etc. I like to immediately try to guess what they do after I provide a short answer, and that 1) ends examination of what I do and 2) allows me to transition to something else.

    "I work in purchasing, let me guess, you're... an airline stewardess? Oh that's right, they prefer to be called flight attendants now. Man, the last time I flew, I got stuck next to... blah blah."

    Just have something lined up so you go from her question straight to a dhv story.

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    Default Re: How should I respond if a woman asks "what do you do?"

    I like to say I'm a male escort
    Never need praise, sympathy, or approval



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    Default Re: How should I respond if a woman asks "what do you do?"

    I used to say, "I'm a freelance mortician... it's not as glamorous as it sounds..."

    Then I'd laugh & tell her a serious answer shortly after, but NOT hover on that topic. (Discussing "work" is NOT going to build attraction.)



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    Default Re: How should I respond if a woman asks "what do you do?"

    First respond with one of the fun answers, lots of the time they won't even pursue what you actually do.

    If they persist, then it's all about frame control (like everything else in PUA). Are you unemployed or are you currently looking for your dream job because you refuse to settle? Are you short on work or are you an entrepeneur trying to get his foot in the door? Are starving because no one will hire you or are you an artist who has chosen to experience poverty for the sake of creativity?

    Their perception depends on how you frame your answer!
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: How should I respond if a woman asks "what do you do?"

    I love this question, it's an early ioi. I use it to move into seduction.

    Her: What do you do?

    Me: Ohhhhh nooooo....we are not going to go into those same boring get to know you questions, where do you work, how old are you, blah, blah, blah. You ate going to meet thousands of people in your life and the exchange is going to go just like that. We are going to do something different. Are you ready for a little adventure?

    Her: Yes...

    Me: If you could choose only one would you choose attractive, rich or famous?

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    Default Re: How should I respond if a woman asks "what do you do?"

    As u can see mate, it doesn't really matter the answer, what matters is the emotion/feeling with how you deliver it... so that she feels challenged when she hears your answer.

    Methodically: don't give what she's asking for, 'cause unconsciously she doesn't want it. Give her what she unconsciously wants. Give her what she's not expecting.

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