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Thread: Asking her out: texting vs calling

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    Default Asking her out: texting vs calling

    Ok guys, I know today's the era where calling is kinda intrusive and texting is what goes great, etc etc etc...
    However, that's what makes calling so ballsy and sets you apart from other guys.

    Texting is good because it allows you to think and re-think about your answer to her reaction (same applies for her obviously), it will mask your nervousness, so your vocal tone is indifferent... well, it will make you appear more confident.

    Calling makes you appear more bold/confident/self-assured. Also, it will increase your chances of success. Why? Simply because it takes much more confidence to reject in a text than to reject when in a call.
    Moreover, if done well, it is better to seduce her. It will help you be more congruent with the image you displayed when you 2 met up for the first time.
    "Fuck this guy is bold, he's calling me to invite me, I can't remember the last time when a guy did this."

    Oh, and don't forget... if she says no, it is so much better to hear it than to read it. Why? Simply because you can turn it around more easily and leave her speechless.

    Example: "hey [girl], a second ago I heard a girl who was talking with the same accent as you!!!"
    Her: "oh really? whatever whatever whatever"
    You: "yeah, what a dejŠ vu, it made me remember of you [nickname], which made me remember one other thing... you ready?"
    Her: "whatever whatever whatever yes."
    You: "It made me remember I have a challenge for you silly!"
    Her: "oh what??"
    You: "You're going to take me out and make me have fun "
    Her: "ahahah I'm gonna reject it..." (shit test?)
    You: "I though the challenge would convince you, but since you rejected, it seems I have to employ my considerable powers of seduction ahah are you ready?"
    Her: "yeah"
    You: "I need to breathe in and do the pregnant respiration thing, do it with me" it's good if she agrees to do it, because it will show she's complying. If she doesn't, no problemo
    Her: "tatatat inspires expires"
    You: "................... .................... .......... ok that's it, I got nothing! No, come and meet me at x hours in y place. I'll be the one looking desperatly to a pokemon resembling you/anything funny"
    Her: "..... yes/no".

    (inspired in Californication)


    So buttom line, texting for first meet and calling for the next ones IMO.

    Cheers!!

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    Default Re: Asking her out: texting vs calling

    Calling is always better, why? because back in the days it was natural thing. Following a script like you did, is nothing near natural. Simple talking to her a bit, seeing what's up and then playfully ask her to take you out OR just ask her out. If you have a good chemistry already and it isn't bumping into her schedule. You're good.

    I wouldn't go for that script especially stuff coming out from a movie or a show. That's my opinion tho'. Think about it.
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    Default Re: Asking her out: texting vs calling

    Oh my thing in particular is calling back humor
    I really gave her a hard time on her accent (playful of course) and I told her I had a challenge to her, simply didn't answer when she asked what.

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    Default Re: Asking her out: texting vs calling

    Im a huge advocate for calling too.

    Plus its way easier I think. And as the OP said it does set you apart from the other guys.

    One time I was trying to set something up..was texting...I was thinking sh1t this is taking too long with these exchanges, was talking about going to a movie. Well killed it good, called her up after about 2 text exchanges..had the movie times up in front of me on the screen...said blah blah blah movies and blah blah blah time how soon can you be ready. She said something I always remember paraphrased(wish I had the exact words) I liked the way you set that up and planned it.....well I'll be jethro?

    As well I didnt do the merri-go-round on the decision making..IDK what do you want to do? I dont care...what do you want to do? Suggest something then if they have no preference after asking them once make the damn decision. Show some kind of balls....the whole idea is to be decisive and not to be wishy-washy.

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    Default Re: Asking her out: texting vs calling

    I will call her dude, that's what feels right to me. And I don't ask anything, I simply state. If she can't or the hour isn't perfect she'll tell me, it's that simple.

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    Default Re: Asking her out: texting vs calling

    I've been working on my text game as of late. Rewind through the other 21 years of my life, all I did was call. In fact even now all I want to do is call. Fuck texting. I'm old school baby!! I try to text as little as possible, and establish early on that I'm not a texter.


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