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  1. #1
    Pick-Up Paul Guest

    Default what should i do with my ex?.....

    So guys this is the situation. I was dating this girl for kind off a long time, well not that long but pretty long for me (2 months). Anyways about 2 months ago we broke up and since then its been kinda akward. And so I just stopped talking to her and try to move on to bigger and better things. So anyways as the story goes, she still talks to me and calls me/txt's me everyday pretty much and occasionaly I ask her whats her deal, and she tells me that shes into this other guy which she hasn't seen for over a year. So my responses to her are always "okay, so why do you talk to me". And she always tells me that im the most interesting guy she's met and doesn't want to lose anything that we had.

    So the situation is that she likes this other guy but still wants me there by her side. And she always messes with me and my game while I'm with other girls, and she makes everything harder to move on.

    So what should I do?

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    Well - without knowing all of the facts, I will say that when I treated girls like this back in my more AFC days, it was because I was scared to be alone and wanted to have a backup plan in place in case the girl I wanted (or the girl who I thought would be better) was not available or didn't like me.

    Sounds like she is just holding on to you for security - but you are not the man she wants.

    If it were me, I would pursue many other women and not lose any sleep over this one girl.

    Anyone agree or disagree?

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    Mo Mo Guest

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    Dont put up with that shit mate.

    Thats the kind of shit that gets you a "LJBF" (lets just be friends) speach. Thats the kind of shit that leads into her dating some other dude and then when she has a fight with him she will call you and cry and ask for advice about the other dude.

    There is plenty of other girls out there.

  4. #4
    Pick-Up Paul Guest

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    alright, thanks guys

    if anyone else has any thoughts or advice just throw it at me, I'm still new to this PUA business :P

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    Tomcat Guest

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    Agreed with Bill, there are many more where she came from.

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    You definitely need to stop replying with her. Say you cant just be friends or w/e, and if she keeps calling or texting then block her number. Shes trying to keep u around as back up boyfriend......so Fuck that shit.

    This is currently happening with one of my friends, except they were together for a few years. Just escape her life. You dont need the drama. None of us do.

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    Dude go out an meet like 3 other women immediately. If you can't meet women consistently - go out more often. Learn how to be cool and chill and fun. Join match. Do something. This girl is not good for you.

  8. #8
    Confidant18 Guest

    Default The truth about your ex

    You want the truth? She is telling you she likes someone else to make you jealous. She wants you back, if she didn't she wouldn't talk to you or mess up your game. You want to know what she is really about? Stop responding to her, she will have no choice but to reveal the truth to you. Have anymore questions? Email me.
    Last edited by Confidant18; 09-01-2009 at 05:58 PM.

  9. #9
    Ambition Guest

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    Get rid of her completely. Do this as chill as possible. Don't respond to texts, don't respond to phone calls. If/when she never gets the hint and literally forces you to talk to her, be as calm and relaxed as possible and say that you're done or you're bored. Never give her more info than that and always have to go a minute after.

    Or you can try to neg her, but I'm not sure if that'll work this far along. Either way, your best bet is to come off as an asshole who has more important things going on than her.

  10. #10
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mo Mo View Post
    Dont put up with that shit mate.

    Thats the kind of shit that gets you a "LJBF" (lets just be friends) speach. Thats the kind of shit that leads into her dating some other dude and then when she has a fight with him she will call you and cry and ask for advice about the other dude.

    There is plenty of other girls out there.
    agreed!


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