I'm not agreeing nor disagreeing with anyone of you mate.
What I'm asking you is if this convo isn't better:
Me: (grabbed hand an twirled her) hey, I'm linking, and you are soo damn cute girl
Her: I'm Beth, and thank you (blushing)
Me: so Beth, you going to kiss me now, or shall we dance for a bit? Actually scratch that, I think we should kiss (push her away now, like Duke said)
After that, he'd pull her in. After some dancing he'd push her away again, and then he'd pull her in again with some kiss in the cheek, for example. After that, another push and then the pull, a kiss.
Obviously this is hypotethical, I just want to know if this wouldn't be better for, you know, learning purposes.