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    Smile Re: Very serious AA issue

    Quote Originally Posted by lolbroek View Post
    I found it hard to hold eye contact when you have aa...even now, when my AA has lowered by alot i still find it uncom to hold eye contact....especiall y with people who you don't want eye contact with (old people, not so hot chicks, weird dudes, ....
    I know the feeling... I rolled past that one the first, as I read on a few sites that was the first step towards getting over AA;

    get yourself a friend, that's a natural, and ask him to teach you how to pickup girls;
    seriously, step on your pride, and ask him this, it's worth it! it's the most rewarding thing you can do, in your case, trust me! once I did it and I jumped over the initial AA, it was like a drug that kicked in: unbelievable

    cheers, mate! keep sargin'

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    Default Re: Very serious AA issue

    Then, don't hold eye contact.
    It's that simple. The doctor didn't prescribe you must.

    Actually, I don't see any rule. I'm comfortable with people..yet, to much eye becomes either irritating or gives away to much.


    Try just casually glancing at the person.
    That's it.
    It's cool. I really don't see that as a real problem...at all

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    Default Re: Very serious AA issue

    No, it's not a problem, but as I said earlier, it helps in overcoming aa; it gets you used to other people;

    you may very well be comfortable with people, but you may still have a big fear of approach;

    I just read on many websites that keeping eye contact longer than the other person helps your inner self conceive that starting a conversation with a stranger is not so difficult or dangerous as we fear it is ...

    I don't know any other basic exercises for overcoming AA ...

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    Default Re: Very serious AA issue

    Quote Originally Posted by Professor View Post
    Then, don't hold eye contact.
    It's that simple. The doctor didn't prescribe you must.

    Actually, I don't see any rule. I'm comfortable with people..yet, to much eye becomes either irritating or gives away to much.


    Try just casually glancing at the person.
    That's it.
    It's cool. I really don't see that as a real problem...at all

    Depends very much on the circumstance. With club game if you can master the "come get me eyes" with enough intensity you can k-close without saying a single word!

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    Default Re: Very serious AA issue

    Quote Originally Posted by sidewinder89 View Post
    Depends very much on the circumstance. With club game if you can master the "come get me eyes" with enough intensity you can k-close without saying a single word!

    I would like to know more about those ' come get me eyes'

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    Default Re: Very serious AA issue

    It seems un natural because that is what we have been programmed by society to think, remember everyone else fights it like we do until we finally retrain our brain.

    The look gets shot down but at least it doesn't carry any particular message when it happens unlike an approach a crash and burn is rather Apparent.

    Good days and bad days happen just keep your head up, back strait and smile, it can only get better with practice

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    Default Re: Very serious AA issue

    Pay attention to your "aa Pattern" and break the pattern in some way; if you see a girl and in your mind you think "Oh shit I should approach her," and then freeze up, catch the intiail thoguht and think something else, or do something else.

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    Default Re: Very serious AA issue

    Quote Originally Posted by DuncanIdaho View Post
    Pay attention to your "aa Pattern" and break the pattern in some way; if you see a girl and in your mind you think "Oh sh1t I should approach her," and then freeze up, catch the intiail thoguht and think something else, or do something else.
    That's a very interesting point ... where can I get more on this?


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