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    Default Is she giving me something here or just being social?

    Im 19 and this took place in the middle of the day.

    Waiting for the bus, there is some other 18-20 guys waiting to, they are smoking. I get on the bus and i take a seat next to a super hot maybe 28ish girl. we have some fast eye contact and then i pick up my phone to text a friend about something. Suddenly i feel her padding me on the arm. I look at her

    Her: Hey isnt that really stupid? Just throwing the cigg on the grass, it can start a fire... so stupid

    Me: hah, yeah, im sure its not that dangerous ( its like zero degrees* )

    her: I heard on the news about them warning for things like this

    Me: (here i freeze, i get nothing good to say. I mean, she is superhot and talking to me, we have eye contact at all time) I say: Oh did u really? yeah maybe your right.

    after that she just turned and looked at the cigarrette, and then kept that angle, looking out the window at all time. I smiled at her for a sec before i got off.

    Woulda been so fun if i had introduced myself / maybe give her my number... pretty dissapointed actually.

    What do you think is the way to go here? I'm a big fan of "older" women hah!

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    Default Re: Is she giving me something here or just being social?

    Well when a cute girl goes out of her way to start a conversation that doesn't make much sense, or just a conversation at all, it's because she likes you. What you should have done is played along with her conversation, razzed her a bit about what she's saying, then asked for her number. For future reference if a chick starts a conversation with you, ask for her number.
    "Act like you're interested, not like you care."

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    Default Re: Is she giving me something here or just being social?

    You do seem rather new to pick up, but girls wouldn't talk to someone unless they have a purpose or just want to socialize. Most people where I live would never start a conversation with anyone (Montreal) I'm 19 aswell and I have to say most girls that game usually see you as a kid. Next time you go across a situation like this, look at her left hand and look for an engagement ring, if none, game on.

    Something else, guys don't give girls their number it isn't really confident. You TELL them to give it to you like: *offer your phone* Here put in your number. Obviously this is after you game her. Anyways..

    Since you're new (Welcome) you should read up on the basic material of Pick up and understand them, work your confidence (to avoid freezing again like that) I'd suggest body language, openers, ioi's and attraction. (Google ''what are girls attracted to in guys'' stuff like that helps)

    Don't think older women wouldn't go after guys our age neither, they find us even more attractive. Yesterday at school this women who worked there (Looked good a 7 I'd say) I was about to go through this open door as the same time she does. She stopped and I stopped aswell, she insisted with her hand, I looked a her and gave her a smirk saying ''I'm not moving until you do'' She smiled and said that's nice, not many people do it anymore. I replied ''Well hey, I'm a gentelman'' soon after I said ''But why exactly are you saying not many people do that?''
    She said ''Well not many people do these such of things anymore, neither people my age. Someone your age doing that is very noticable''

    Voila, simple. Anyways look up those things and you're gold. Try to keep it as natural as possible, they're is no method that will work 100%. PUA isn't a step by step instruction book, so. Go out and make your own rules.
    ablindman's new account, pm me if you need help.

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    Default Re: Is she giving me something here or just being social?

    Quote Originally Posted by OhSnap View Post
    You do seem rather new to pick up, but girls wouldn't talk to someone unless they have a purpose or just want to socialize. Most people where I live would never start a conversation with anyone (Montreal) I'm 19 aswell and I have to say most girls that game usually see you as a kid. Next time you go across a situation like this, look at her left hand and look for an engagement ring, if none, game on.

    Something else, guys don't give girls their number it isn't really confident. You TELL them to give it to you like: *offer your phone* Here put in your number. Obviously this is after you game her. Anyways..

    Since you're new (Welcome) you should read up on the basic material of Pick up and understand them, work your confidence (to avoid freezing again like that) I'd suggest body language, openers, ioi's and attraction. (Google ''what are girls attracted to in guys'' stuff like that helps)

    Don't think older women wouldn't go after guys our age neither, they find us even more attractive. Yesterday at school this women who worked there (Looked good a 7 I'd say) I was about to go through this open door as the same time she does. She stopped and I stopped aswell, she insisted with her hand, I looked a her and gave her a smirk saying ''I'm not moving until you do'' She smiled and said that's nice, not many people do it anymore. I replied ''Well hey, I'm a gentelman'' soon after I said ''But why exactly are you saying not many people do that?''
    She said ''Well not many people do these such of things anymore, neither people my age. Someone your age doing that is very noticable''

    Voila, simple. Anyways look up those things and you're gold. Try to keep it as natural as possible, they're is no method that will work 100%. PUA isn't a step by step instruction book, so. Go out and make your own rules.
    Nothing wrong with giving them your number, however in the right frame. Ive done it a few times and the very next response from them was their phone number in exchange....nothing negative ever came from it for me...it is just another way exchanging contact details, as long as you imply your wanting their number and not sort of like saying "hey call me when your lonely" type deal.

    And as well, observing for a ring is a OK method but alot of girls realize guys are looking for such a thing and will wear an heirloom or some type of non-official ring to throw off potential AFC's. I know of a girl I went out with and upon observing her facebook photos in choice venues she would have some type of fancy shiny ring on her ring finger.....then it would never appear again in any of her photos...hmmm if it was a style thing wouldnt she have it on more often? LOL good stuff. And she never wore it around me, and never wore much other jewelry at all either....


    Depends on if they are being social/just friendly, the idea is when you get approached in such a manner is to flip it to some type of flirting/gaming and see how they respond..then you'll know if its just friendly contact or something more.

    I wouldve said something like a cigarette? I thought I saw you smoking outside and flip that butt on the ground like that...is that smoke I smell on you? I'm going to have to switch seats now....

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    Default Re: Is she giving me something here or just being social?

    Quote Originally Posted by OhSnap View Post
    You do seem rather new to pick up, but girls wouldn't talk to someone unless they have a purpose or just want to socialize. Most people where I live would never start a conversation with anyone (Montreal) I'm 19 aswell and I have to say most girls that game usually see you as a kid. Next time you go across a situation like this, look at her left hand and look for an engagement ring, if none, game on.

    Something else, guys don't give girls their number it isn't really confident. You TELL them to give it to you like: *offer your phone* Here put in your number. Obviously this is after you game her. Anyways..

    Since you're new (Welcome) you should read up on the basic material of Pick up and understand them, work your confidence (to avoid freezing again like that) I'd suggest body language, openers, ioi's and attraction. (Google ''what are girls attracted to in guys'' stuff like that helps)

    Don't think older women wouldn't go after guys our age neither, they find us even more attractive. Yesterday at school this women who worked there (Looked good a 7 I'd say) I was about to go through this open door as the same time she does. She stopped and I stopped aswell, she insisted with her hand, I looked a her and gave her a smirk saying ''I'm not moving until you do'' She smiled and said that's nice, not many people do it anymore. I replied ''Well hey, I'm a gentelman'' soon after I said ''But why exactly are you saying not many people do that?''
    She said ''Well not many people do these such of things anymore, neither people my age. Someone your age doing that is very noticable''

    Voila, simple. Anyways look up those things and you're gold. Try to keep it as natural as possible, they're is no method that will work 100%. PUA isn't a step by step instruction book, so. Go out and make your own rules.
    Hey first of all, thx for answers guys!

    When i think back at the situation i get mad haha, really wish id try to game her, gonna read up on the things you linked. Thx for that aswell.

    You all come up with all these great answers when talking to women haha. Can be pretty smart but i have to change my way i respond to girls... I believe puaforums gonna help me tho!


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