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Thread: Pick up rules to live by, for building the Alpha Male persona

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    Default Pick up rules to live by, for building the Alpha Male persona

    Pick up Advanced Techniques and Rules
    I just had an off night as I posted in the "Field Report" section about how it went. In essence most my sets sucked but I found a wing man on the fly. I told him I was a PUA (would never tell a girl that, LOL) and he said he wanted to wing for me. So I learned some rules to live by and wanted to share them.

    Rules of the PUA:
    #1 The Wing: Don't approach with the wing if you approached alone originally. Only open sets brand spanking new with a wing if you need to deal with a potential cockblock. I realized a wing is not there to open the set or even help manage the set there are only there to teach or to learn.

    I realized I should have let my wing watch me open then advised him to open some girls. When I was getting cockblocked that was the prime time to bring in my wing for help. The wing is there to help not to show social proof. I tried to use my wing as social proof and got a massive blow out by it with 2 instant IOD's. Your wing is there to watch you open girls, deal with cockblocks, or have them open. But not have them hanging there as a crutch opener, any social proof, or giving you help when you don't need it. Go in alone with your wing hanging out until you need backup. Seriously I learned this the hard way guys don't be like me and go AFC.

    #2 The Mindset
    Don't open girls you can't close. Essentially don't ever open a 7. Only 7.5's or higher. No more clown stuff. If you want to soar with the Eagles then stop flying with the hawks. I got this wrong and thought this HB7 was a 7 and she was a 7.5 and somehow she knew I was demoralizing her and her friend knew it some way and they both tore me up and served me up on a silver platter. I got served because I didn't size her up right and my inner game wasn't airtight. So get it right don't approach unless 7.5 or higher. Why? Because I have noticed the lower they are the more mind games they play. The hotter the better as they are more open to a swinging good time.

    Not trying to stereotype just saying this is how it really is. I have had enough experience now doing this and haven't been trusting my gut when I should have. Now I will try to trust my gut and only approach the girls worthy. By that I mean the ones I can handle. For some reason I can't handle the HB6's & 7's worth jack. So go in strong and have a rock solid inner game ready for the ice shields,
    sh!t tests, and cockblocks sure to follow.

    #3 Alpha Male Spirit
    Go all out on your big bad self and throw down. Looks don't matter because I am a super good looking dude and have gotten played for shorter guys, less attractive guys, guys with no game only having pretty girls thrown at them, etc while I have to work for everything.

    Never open a 3 set without a wing or a super good plan. Back away think about your opener and get set like the hulk. Go buck wild and treat it like a game after all it is and you are a hunter searching for worthy prey. Not that you should play girls but that you should play the game. Mind games never work so don't try it. Just get the Alpha male spirit and don't chicken out. Remember you are the selector not the seller. You shouldn't feel desperate like you have to hit on everything that moves.

    Dealing with oneitis
    Oneitis is a blood sucking virus only fit for vampyres so don't go there unless you are a natural born AFC and can own your AFC self then girls will like that (reverse physchology you are AFC but you become Alpha by owning your identity). After all it's only when you are trying to be something you are not that girls hate which makes you a true AFC wanna be Alpha with no game. But you can be AFC or Alpha doesn't matter just own it and roll with it.

    I used to be that way and would desperately want HB5's, 6's, and 7's to like me. But people change and people's opinions change. With that being said I was like "why am I opening girls I can't close?" ie opening girls under HB7.5. I noticed I was just acting desperate. Girls don't care about looks. But don't look like a slob. Girls care about game. So game the heck out of them and only open girls you have that you know you are going to close. Your opener will come easy but think in advance how you are going to isolate, do a mini-bounce, or close this gal. Because I haven't been pre-planning my close and just so focused on my opener. Now I will start thinking "what do I want to do with this gal?" Do I want her #, do I want to mini-bounce her, do I want to isolate her? etc.

    It's pretty hard but don't focus on the end result of getting some action just focus on your primary goal which is lifting your state. These are not really "rules" just random words to live by as you can learn from me and I can learn from you. I am just sharing things I am trying to understand and practice myself but remember it's so hard to get airtight with inner game sometimes I wonder when it will ever happen. But then again I did just have a super amazing set with my homegirl (HB9 bartender) she was dropping hints about going to start asking guys out now because she loves nerds. She has a BF but I think this was a passive IOI stating she was not that attached to him (otherwise why was she talking like being in a relationship in an uncommited way) and actually showed me I still have a chance with her if I play my cards right. Again women are very subtle and found out my homegirl actually went after her current BF. Either way she asked about my GF (LOL) didn't even bring it up and already she is craving my affection the minute I DHV her with a GF. The GF thing didn't last but 4 days after she left me for her Ex-BF. She was so happy about that! Definitely don't have oneitis though I had to get a GF to prove to her I could get one and when I did get one my chain of oneitis was broken. Now that it was broken we have the most amazing convo after that (coincidence? I think not). I was so unstiffled not having that oneitis. But yeah focusing on this girl on POF right now (HB9) trying to take it slow since girls are very leery of the whole online dating concept.

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    Default Re: Pick up rules to live by, for building the Alpha Male persona

    I disagree with your HB7 playing mind games. If you didn't know most girls who play mind games are girls who gossip a lot. Lets take a group of Chilien girls. They know mind games and will fuck you over. Unless you don't go in as a thirsty hound dog. (I had this HB 8 and she got quickly addicted to me, she tried her mind games and I just returned them, giving her emotion swings anyways, she was more into relationships so I ejected). I play girls from 7-10, pratice on the lower ones for the heck of it a 6 is passable to me. Anyways, all and all this is a very good post and I enjoyed going through it, don't get caught up with my opinion, its just my take on the Mindset.
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    Default Re: Pick up rules to live by, for building the Alpha Male persona

    I actually disagree with a lot of stuff here. Mainly because all of these seem to be made specifically for you. If that's what works for you than to at it, but I guarantee these wont apply to everyone and marketing them like some all-inclusive rules of the game is just going to confuse people. You can do whatever you want with your wing as log as both of you aren't giving a fuck about what happens, stable in your inner game (which seems to be your biggest problem) and high energy. It's perfectly fine to go after 6s and 7s at first, in my experience they don't give you any more trouble than the higher numbers. What probably tripped you up is that they could tell you we're sizing them up by their looks. And as far as your last point, I don't even know what you're trying to say there. But as long as I've been gaming I've never had one close that I planned out all the way through. No plan survives contact with the enemy and all that good stuff. What you need to be working on is always being comfortable in any situation, learn to adapt, and never lose your frame. Plans and overthinking things will only end up hurting you in the end.
    Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming “WOW...What a Ride!”

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    Default Re: Pick up rules to live by, for building the Alpha Male persona

    Thanks for the pointers, clearly I was dissecting that wrong on the HB7's. I guess I will revise my views on that understanding. Appreciate the feedback.

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    Default Re: Pick up rules to live by, for building the Alpha Male persona

    Have no agenda when talking to a girl. Having fun is the only thing that should come to your mind. Things will be way better.

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    Default Re: Pick up rules to live by, for building the Alpha Male persona

    I disagree with the part about not opening a set of 3 without a wing. I think that's the best way. If you go for 2 girls they are likely to blow you out and talk to eachother. With 3 you can Isolate one and move her away from the other two as long as you guys are initially within eyesight of her friends. With just two girls and no wing you run the risk of them either getting bored of you or walking away or just blowing you out by ignoring you and being rude. I say if you have no wing(I don't) go for odd number sets.


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