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Thread: Weird Message

  1. #1
    illmaculate Guest

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    Basically i met this girl about a year ago, we exchanged numers and ended up going out on a date, went great but i bottled it when it came to a kiss close. She asked me out agian and once again i failed to move in for the kill. We kept in contact for a week or two after that and then i had to move country. I sent her a text to say goodbye and no response.

    Well i moved back home. I had learned a lot while i was away and experienced great success in terms of sleeping with women but for some reason this girl from the past remained in the back of my mind all of the time. My game was tight as hell but i still missed this girl. Que a project with a group of friends i had been away with. It was decided that we would work on the theory of clusters in economics with a particular focus on coleges in the area which we had traveled to. The guys were aware i knew the said girl and pushed me to get info from her since she went to one of those colleges.

    I ended up emailing her and she was ridiculously helpful. She gave me all of the info i needed and asked me when i was coming back to visit her and said that we should definitely meet up if i did. She also apologised for not texting me back (i obviously didnt mention it) and said it was because she only recieved the text after i had left She also added me on fb.

    Anyway the months rolled on. I had no reason to go back and visit the area so we never got back in contact. Then out of the blue i get this email from her:
    "I don't have a twitter account in case you happen to wondering haha. I'm also a crafty ass mofo"

    I had no idea what this meant but i hit her back with:

    "the utter randomness of that reminds me why, out of all the renata ** *****'s i know......you are definitely my favorite"

    she came back and started to post on my wall:

    "what a coincidence, because of all the Alan * ********'s I know, you are probably my favorite as well haha. Happy Birthday, hope you're having a proper celebration! Also, why are you a fan of (area where i used to work)? Seriously?

    We did some back and forth all week and it has pretty much ended with her asking when i would be coming back to the area. I said i would in mid september ( i was going to have a trip paid for that time but it has since fallen though) and she replied "Yep, i'll be here then, chillin'"

    Would it be worth making the trip to see how it goes?

    I am aware i have chronic oneitis, but i have been out meeting and sleeping with women for the past year and i still cant shake this girl. I am at a total loss as to where to go with this and would appreciate your advice. Do you think i am in the friend zone?

    Sorry for the long post!

  2. #2
    grex Guest

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    You seem to be doing really well for yourself in the bedroom. When you met this girl, did you sleep with many woman prior to that?
    If i were in this situation i would ask myself

    Am i sexually attracted to her.
    and whether i would continue seeing this girl after sex.

    Before i would go and see her i would get her to call me a few times, to see if she really was keen, then if she did call me i would go pay her a visit and see how it goes from there. It wouldn't hurt to try, this is one of those situations that you should take advantage of when you can, but make sure you are flirtatious so you don't get categorized as a best friend.
    Live your life with no regrets !

    (Talking from my own experience)

    Hope that helps a little

  3. #3
    illmaculate Guest

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    Quote Originally Posted by grex View Post
    You seem to be doing really well for yourself in the bedroom. When you met this girl, did you sleep with many woman prior to that?
    If i were in this situation i would ask myself

    Am i sexually attracted to her.
    and whether i would continue seeing this girl after sex.

    Before i would go and see her i would get her to call me a few times, to see if she really was keen, then if she did call me i would go pay her a visit and see how it goes from there. It wouldn't hurt to try, this is one of those situations that you should take advantage of when you can, but make sure you are flirtatious so you don't get categorized as a best friend.
    Live your life with no regrets !

    (Talking from my own experience)

    Hope that helps a little
    I slept with a few yes. I was trying to "follow the rules" and i was seeing two other girls at the same time. Still ended up with oneitis.... Anyway thanks for the advice, just wondering if you had any insight into what that email out of the blue meant?

  4. #4
    grex Guest

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    yeah that email, could have meant plenty of things, but you won't know unless you meet up with her.. I think she did it out of impulse, but that can be proven wrong IF she does give you those phone calls.

    hope that helps
    Last edited by grex; 08-31-2009 at 01:44 AM.

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    illmaculate Guest


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