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    Default Girl proximity on dance floor?

    This might sound like an obvious question, but do you guys have any tips for "recieving" a girl that you feel is giving you proximity or that is approaching you on the dance floor? Happens to me quite a bit but i usually dont capitilize on it and freeze up unsure of what to do...

    Now dont get me wrong, id say im actually pretty decent at dancing with girls once were "paired up" and dancing. But heres what usually happens: me and a few buddies head out on the dance floor, dance around and have a good time. Ill start having girls that are obviiously trying to dance, but do so by moving toawrds me BACKWARDS while dancing (backin it up!). Alot of times they will actually back their ass up and bump into me.. when theres clearly plenty of room and they know im there.. I have a hard time turning this into a dance with them, and frankly usually just pass the opportunity up, because:

    1. Ive always been under the understanding it is weird-creepy to just grab onto a girl from behind.

    2. Its to loud and would be awkward for anything verbal (plus there jumping around).

    3. I wind up thinking "maybe there not really trying to dance with me" ( although some are obvious )

    This happened a few times last night again and afterwarsds i can just kick myself for not just manning up and doing something.

    So again, anyone else encounter this? And any tips on making it smooth? I want to start turning these into dances tonight.. lol

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    Default Re: Girl proximity on dance floor?

    Honestly I don't think the dance floor is that good for pickup. But if you're out there wiht your friends just to have fun, then by all means enjoy yourself.

    The best move I would ever do, I would sometimes do a slight but intentional hip check to their side. Like, it's obviously not an accident, but its not creapy groping, and its really low risk. I do that and smile, while still dancing

    In dance lingo, it's like saying hello. The conversation then proceeds from there. If they're interested, you'll see their body calibrate.
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    Default Re: Girl proximity on dance floor?

    Good suggestion. Yea, its like you need something to do to "accept" their dance or get their full attention before physically locking on.. lol


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