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    Default Re: Bus/Subway Approaching: Girls with Earphones

    Quote Originally Posted by scguitar View Post
    Headphones are nothing. You just signal for them to take their headphones out and they do
    and then what? I know headphones are not the issue, but the approach as a whole; her initial state is the 'headphones' idea; how do you get her from that static, boring place, to actively talking and qualifying herself to you? also, you have no way of knowing what her emotional state is, so that complicates things even further ...

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    Default Re: Bus/Subway Approaching: Girls with Earphones

    Quote Originally Posted by rocketguy View Post
    and then what? I know headphones are not the issue, but the approach as a whole; her initial state is the 'headphones' idea; how do you get her from that static, boring place, to actively talking and qualifying herself to you? also, you have no way of knowing what her emotional state is, so that complicates things even further ...
    You have know idea of her emotional state with EVERY approach. That's why it's called risk. To me, if anything, she's in a better mood because she's most likely listening to music she likes, which will put her in a better mood. I got a number from a girl who had head phones in before. My advice would be to treat it as a normal approach, as if she didn't have headphones. The only difference is you're going to tap on her shoulder and signal for her to take her headphones out in the beginning

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    Default Re: Bus/Subway Approaching: Girls with Earphones

    Quote Originally Posted by scguitar View Post
    You have know idea of her emotional state with EVERY approach. That's why it's called risk. To me, if anything, she's in a better mood because she's most likely listening to music she likes, which will put her in a better mood. I got a number from a girl who had head phones in before. My advice would be to treat it as a normal approach, as if she didn't have headphones. The only difference is you're going to tap on her shoulder and signal for her to take her headphones out in the beginning
    do you directly approach her? like telling her you like her style/music/ etc ... or telling her you wanna talk to someone and she seems the most interesting person in your immediate proximity? or do you try to indirectly get her to talk?

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    Default Re: Bus/Subway Approaching: Girls with Earphones

    Quote Originally Posted by scguitar View Post
    To me, if anything, she's in a better mood because she's most likely listening to music she likes, which will put her in a better mood.
    Yeah and that's why I'm thinking that you should use such an interesting approach that it should be better than listening to music because if she's having more fun listening to music than talking to you, she could instantly blow you off. And of course if you try too hard, you may come up as creepy.
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