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    Default bar scene

    so my 21st birthday is next week and cant wait to hit that bar. what is the best way to approach a girl that is in a bar?

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    Quote Originally Posted by daniel3:16 View Post
    so my 21st birthday is next week and cant wait to hit that bar. what is the best way to approach a girl that is in a bar?
    Go with a wingman if possible since they will motivate you to open, sarging like crazy (at least 3 sets after warming up), N-closes, K-closes, Kino, Situational Openers, rapport Building, Walking away then re-approaching with something witty, weeding chicks out, challenging them, etc.

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    what is the best way to approach a girl that is in a bar?
    don't overcomplicate things, just walk up to her and say "hey, blah, blah..." you can litteraly say anything to a girl as long as its not offensive.
    the important thing is not what you say, but rather how you say what you say. (speak with confidence, and just have fun with it, she'll since The Vibe you give off)
    plus its your birthday so try some Direct Game, who knows you might just get lucky and have some birthday sex

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    The new world you are entering into when you turn 21...

    If I knew the things I know now when I was 21, oh gosh the things that could have been done.


    Just be confident. Have fun with it all. Try things out. Always remember that rejection is going to be a part of the game.

    Warm ups are definitely a great way to start. Even if it's a simple Hi.

    I practice a quick warm up with a friend of mine who is the biggest AFC ever... I tell him just go up to a girl and compliment something about her except her looks. It helps him ease out of the Approach Anxiety thing because I tell him don't expect anything back. Just say something and leave it at that..

    I know compliments shouldn't be thrown around like it's confetti and a parade, but it does help if aa is a thing people have and fear. He feels more at ease and is able to move in on the bigger picture.

    GReat thing to do also is if you see someone you are interested in, approach the group (assuming a girl is typically with a group and not herself), and give her group more attention than her. Makes her want to compete for you. Always works great once you get good at it.

    I still today do this to my gf... When we go out in a group, I will pay more attention to the group than her (not in a weird ignoring way).. But it always gets her near me, wanting to kiss me, etc... Once you get good at it, it seriously works wonders.


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