Hello, I am a 18yr old MAN, who has been a social outcast most of high scool, I am in my final year and I am sick and tired of girls not giving me a second glance and guys passing me off as a "loner" or "loser".
Like i said in the previous sentence I would be considered a "loner/loser" I belive i have a rather optimistic veiw, I played WoW since freshman year i recently quit and am just now starting to get invited to party's, functions and so on. Also I am starting to get glances by girls far more offten, Also the guys will chat me up ask me what im up to the next weekend so on... But I am FAR behind when it comes to the social scene. I am severely overweight, luckily I am fairly muscular and you can see arm, back, and shoulder definition. I am starting to work out again, and plan on perusing relationship, as well as good times making new friends. More or less what im looking for is a starters guide to read women and pick them up =).
I have done extensive research in the field of body language. I can tell if a girl is into me, and so on...however i cannot communicate, as soon as a girl approaches me I instantly become shy...I dont have any game at all, I have less then peewee Herman+carrot top combined... I have a decent smile, again im chubby so i have dimples and a babyish face. I have dark thick eyebrows, Dark brown eyes, I am 5'10ish, and sitting at about 300lbs (was at about 280, then i started lifting, and blew up...) I have the willpower to cut weight and gain more muscle, what i still lack is self confidence and "game".
I plead for your help, Thanks.
P.S. I have been called funny, witty, and absolutely hilarious when i get a few drinks.
Ok now to the girl...she just moved back from Flordia to Iowa, where i live...Shes super laid back, and shes fairly pretty, I messaged her on facebook, and we has a conversation about differnt things, mostly the change between Iowa, and Florida, now I messaged her on Facebook again and she said like 2 words then went offline, she came back online and never messaged me. What am i doing wrong, because im positive im messing it up...In class she lays her head sideways, will glance at me and be the first to smile when we cross eyes...