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    BigmanTC Guest

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    Hello, I am a 18yr old MAN, who has been a social outcast most of high scool, I am in my final year and I am sick and tired of girls not giving me a second glance and guys passing me off as a "loner" or "loser".

    Like i said in the previous sentence I would be considered a "loner/loser" I belive i have a rather optimistic veiw, I played WoW since freshman year i recently quit and am just now starting to get invited to party's, functions and so on. Also I am starting to get glances by girls far more offten, Also the guys will chat me up ask me what im up to the next weekend so on... But I am FAR behind when it comes to the social scene. I am severely overweight, luckily I am fairly muscular and you can see arm, back, and shoulder definition. I am starting to work out again, and plan on perusing relationship, as well as good times making new friends. More or less what im looking for is a starters guide to read women and pick them up =).

    I have done extensive research in the field of body language. I can tell if a girl is into me, and so on...however i cannot communicate, as soon as a girl approaches me I instantly become shy...I dont have any game at all, I have less then peewee Herman+carrot top combined... I have a decent smile, again im chubby so i have dimples and a babyish face. I have dark thick eyebrows, Dark brown eyes, I am 5'10ish, and sitting at about 300lbs (was at about 280, then i started lifting, and blew up...) I have the willpower to cut weight and gain more muscle, what i still lack is self confidence and "game".

    I plead for your help, Thanks.
    T.C.

    P.S. I have been called funny, witty, and absolutely hilarious when i get a few drinks.



    Ok now to the girl...she just moved back from Flordia to Iowa, where i live...Shes super laid back, and shes fairly pretty, I messaged her on facebook, and we has a conversation about differnt things, mostly the change between Iowa, and Florida, now I messaged her on Facebook again and she said like 2 words then went offline, she came back online and never messaged me. What am i doing wrong, because im positive im messing it up...In class she lays her head sideways, will glance at me and be the first to smile when we cross eyes...
    Last edited by BigmanTC; 09-03-2009 at 08:09 PM.

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    RocketMan Guest

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    Hey man, welcome.

    Here is some initial advice. THROW AWAY WoW. Imagine if spent the last years (since Freshman) leveling up YOURSELF at the gym and in social situations instead of your wizard or whatever... imagine where you would be in life? So do that now. Go there... start growing now. And hit the gym, it's fun, cool to lift with the fellas - will introduce you to a bunch of new people and will get you in shape. All confidence boosters.

    Also - Check out that program that is on the banner ad here. conquer your campus. I bought it and am like 25% through it... it's great yo!

    Rocketman.

    PS - Welcome man.

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    lol, I already threw out WoW, About 3 months into last summer...Thats the only reason im wanting to come out of my shell....Thanks I will look into it. I just tryed it and I enter my name/email, it says

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    Hey man, if you're worried about your weight being a factor with women... DON'T! I had a friend in highschool who was overweight but he had all the confidence in the world and it paid off. This guy could get girls so easy and now I see what it was, he was a natural. But you have game on your side so you can surpass his success with a little study and work. View your pickups as a game, like WOW, just like rocket man said. This girl you're approaching is just a way of leveling up. Interactions are really fun when you view them that way. Each conversation is just practice and field study. Keep your head up and let me know your progress. Btw highschool is the best social situation ever, you hang out with people all day and it really is the best time of your life. Life is what you make it!

    Also, on the girl situation. Don't read into it too much, don't ask her about not responding that's a deal breaker. Alpha males can have any woman they want, wait for her to respond back to you. You're too cool to be hung up on a girl. Get in your head and slowly convince yourself that you are the prize. It takes a while but everytime you get a negative thought start thinking alpha male instead. It's a slow process but the more alpha Mindset you adapt the more good things come your way. Good luck Alpha male!
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