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    Default The Science of Approaching

    Im not gonna write out a novel on how to do this, cause fark all that reading and writing...

    Anyways, approaching isn't as simple as most of you think it is. To approach REQUIRES;
    1)Confidence
    2)Opener(obviously)
    If your not confident in your approach you are likely too have a lame ass opener. Here's a nice random girl scenario:

    Me: Aye you know what time it is?
    She: umm its 12
    Me: dam im boutta be late!
    She:for what??
    ...if you get her to ask a question the possibilities are endless.

    The key to all this is that I asked her about the time the same way I would ask my closest friend...you know, the tone, demeanor and whatnot.

    To quickly summarize, were most COMFORTABLE around our closest friends, therefore we act like OURSELVES around our closest friends. CONFIDENCE is being comfortable with yourself, so if you do that in your approach your chances of success will skyrocket. -Jafari out

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    Default Re: The Science of Approaching

    I;m going to use this next time I'm out. What are some good things to reply with? Does it have to be sexually related or can it be anything, just let your mind run wild as it were?

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    Default Re: The Science of Approaching

    Quote Originally Posted by Smokey View Post
    I;m going to use this next time I'm out. What are some good things to reply with? Does it have to be sexually related or can it be anything, just let your mind run wild as it were?
    Dam im late with this reply...but naa i wouldnt make it sexual cause you might look creepy in her eyes. Approaching isn't always natural, so to make it easier I like to imagine approaching a teacher about a question i have,then i'd adopt the approach my teacher Mindset and use it towards my opener.
    -"Dependence is only a state of mind, Independence is a state of being, because in the end all we really have in the world is ourselves"

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    Default Re: The Science of Approaching

    I can see this going in the opposite direction.

    PUA: Excuse me, what time is it?
    Her: Umm, 12:00.
    PUA: Crap I'm going to be late!
    Her: Ohh hah, well, have a good day. *walks away*

    I mean, you said you're going to be late, I don't think that she would want to make you (a random dude) any later.

    In stead, I would go with..
    Her: Umm, 12:00.
    PUA: Hmm, would you know where the closest Starbucks's (or any local coffee shop) is? I didn't have time to get my morning cup and I'm draggin' ass.
    Her: *tells you where it's at*
    PUA: Great, thanks! I'm meeting someone there in about 7 minutes. What would you recommend?

    With that last statement, you put on a time constraint "about 7 minutes", she becomes aware that you're meeting "someone" (leaves her to wonder, man or woman?) and you've asked for an opinion. As old school as that is, women will always love to tell you want to get! After she suggests something, wrap up the convo (because now you only have 4 minutes) get her number, and peace.

    Also, one thing I'd like to add is the importance of her noticing you before you approach. You come off a lot less surprising or random if she notices you before the open. If she didn't see you, no biggie, it just breaks the subconscious ice.

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    Default Re: The Science of Approaching

    Yea Bimmer, your right. It could go the other way.

    I just took into account that girls hate not knowing about even the most minute things...I'm just the kind of guy that keeps things simple. To each their own
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