Freeze Out? Seriously, where are you getting this information? Cause its not just you. I feel like so many guys don't get the right. A freeze out is not supposed to be used like this. You use a freeze out when you're trying to escalate (take things to the next level) and she's resisting. Whether its in the bedroom or if you're tying to get her in a relationship. You don't use it whenever you have a mini freak out or don't know what to say.