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Thread: Strategies for going out without a wing

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    Default Strategies for going out without a wing

    Since it's not possible for me to go out with a wing I tend to not go out at all. However, I am going to force myself to go out anyway. I have a few ideas in mind and I understand that you have to open the entire set(especially if it's just two or three girls).

    So this is for those on here who go out by themselves without a wing. If you don't go out solo at least half the time or have any experience going out by yourself then please don't reply here. So what I would like to know is what are the best strategies for opening, isolating, etc etc for going out by yourself. My guess would be the larger the group the better but if there is a good way to do this by approaching and talking to two girls, even if it's just getting a girls number real quick, I would like to know about it. Please be as specific and detailed as possible without being too long winded. Thanks.

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    Default Re: Strategies for going out without a wing

    Work the room, talk to everyone, dudes, bartenders, waitresses girls you aren't even interested it. The goal is to build your social proof, otherwise you will just be that awkward person by himself with a 0 percent chance of success. If you don't get it done quickly once everyone has that opinion all you can do is leave and go elsewhere.

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    Default Re: Strategies for going out without a wing

    Wow, is it really that difficult to pick up women by yourself without kissing everyone's ass at the venue?

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    Default Re: Strategies for going out without a wing

    Not everyone just enough for valid social proof, so long as you are able to prove you are not a social retard everyonelse will Disarm

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    Default Re: Strategies for going out without a wing

    I know this is a lot but read it if you really want tips...

    Alright to be honest with you... doing solo is very difficult... especially since it is hard to find a good wing... before I join a crew... I had to do a lot of solo approaches... I have done over 100 approaches and I have notice that for solo is more for day game the night... also the location is important also... I usually go into grocers store, starbucks, bookstores, and also malls which also include yes the women department... there is a lot of them in there lol! anyways you need to know a few steps Once you see the girl that you are interested in... do a three second analyst of her and her surroundings ... for example you see her in a coffee shop and she looks like she is doing some homework, or she might be in a mall doing some type of shopping... you then Approach with a question or make a statement that is related to the surrounding and also what she might be doing... example she is in the coffee shop typing ask "what are you working on?" this is said with a smile and also with really interest... or you could make a statement and say "wow that homework looks like it is kicking your ass!!" lol said with a smile and a little bit of a tease... if she isn't to busy she will reply back... then you continue on from there here is one of my field reports

    Scene at the Library... 3 sec. rule and anlayzing her... I notice she was carring alot of books...

    Approach - Me: You sure you could read all those books before you return them?

    Her: Smile and says these isn't a lot of books, most of them is DVDs...

    I look up notice that she was in the DVD section... but didn't react to it... sh1t happens just push for another subject and analy another thing to talk about...

    Next Subject and build attaction stage - Me: No way... are you from London, I notice you got a British accient! I have been there and they sound just like you!

    She had a Big Smile and Laugh Her: No way! everyone has been saying that! I can't believe it, but no I am from Wisconsin...

    Lite Neg - Me: No your not you would about said a-boot and all the other stuff...

    Giggles - Her: I don't know what your talking a-boot (laughs) ioi

    Change the next subject and do a little analying on her with lite negs- Me: So you were probably one of the smart kids huh, always getting straigh As, and stuff kind of boring (said with a smile and joking way)

    Grooms herself and smile IOI her: Yeh your right

    Slighly put my hand on her shoulder Rapport and change the subject Me: Do you like to watch Musicals

    Her: Yeh! I love them

    Me: Nice have you watch WICKED?

    Her: No sadly

    Me: What it is Amazing Show it is the story about Wizard of Oz but the Witches Version of it!

    Her squessh my hand IOI Her: Wow really that sound so great I would love to see it!

    Number Close: Me: hey they have it play next month give me your number so we could watch it! (IMMIDEATLY PULL PHONE OUT AND HAND IT TO HER!!!) (DON'T ASK FOR HER NUMBER TELL HER TO GIVE IT TO YOU!)

    Then we talk alittle bit more after I got her number about other stuff... Remember even after you number close don't just leave or else she will be hesitant to meet you or answer your call because she will feel like she just got use... After about 30 mins of getting to now each other and feeling that she will not Flake on me I excuse myself out of the conversation... and we have been texting and chatting and hanging out every now and again... however I found out she was engage to someone... so I ended it...
    Hidden in the background... The deadly Chameleon waits patiently... to strike...

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    Default Re: Strategies for going out without a wing

    some good advice in here. thanks

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    Default Re: Strategies for going out without a wing

    I've been trying solo as well.... hasn't been going very well.

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    Default Re: Strategies for going out without a wing

    I can't imagine having a wing would be any better actually. I think initially it would help because of the social proof factor but at some point you need to rely on your skills(ie your game)regardless.

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    Default Re: Strategies for going out without a wing

    I go out solo nearly all the time. I do that because I love interacting with new people, and isn't that a crucial point stressed in pick-up?

    From my experiences, here is what I can recommend to you:

    #1. Know the Events

    You should go around town and figure out all of the weekly, monthly, one time happenings that are going on. Mark these in an electronic calender, so you always have it on hand when figuring out where to go or what to do. Events are a hot spot of social interaction, and I can say I have had a bulk of my successes when there was a party-type event going on in the downtown area.

    #2. Know the Spots

    Sometimes you don't even need an event as an excuse to go out. Figure out where you just see people the most. It can be a park, a store, a part of town, or wherever. Hell, I've hit on a girl in a GNC before. That goes to show that any place is a possibility.

    #3. Know the Talk

    The most important part of this is knowing how to converse in the street. Confidence is one thing, but being able to effortlessly carry out a conversation with one, two, or a group of people is essential. My best advice to you is to go check out the Sasha Daygame videos on Youtube. Use them as a guide for tips and such. After that, it's all just practice, practice, practice.

    #4. Know the People

    It helps to make friends with some of the big guys and people in the streets. I can say that I've figured out a ton of things from becoming good friends with the shopkeepers in my hometown. I've also got a date coming up because I became good friends with a retired doctor, who happens to have a grand daughter my age. Just goes to show that gaming anyone who is anyone can yield all sorts of interesting benefits.

    That is all that I have on the matter. As you go out more and more on your own, you may meet a guy or two you can tag team with and get some more action in. That's what happened with me recently, and now I'm busy with him for the rest of the week. In addition, you will find your own style and methods as you test out what you know on your own and in the field.

    Happy hunting
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X


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