On to way to leaping out of 'prison', (and this is universal) you have to be detached form the chick when you feel the middle section coming in..and attached with small grams of the inside come out.
Thing I noticed.
Obviously, my first year picking up, I felt like a loser, who each time DIDN'T get caught.
Almost afraid, someday, the chicks would turn around and say..
"Damn, but you're a loser"
This is until..
I saw someone, pick up like me..
And that's when I realzied through observation.
That chicks, even though they are super observant, HAVE a blind spot.
When you're talking to them, by jumping, on top of your 'loser self'(middle section)..don't see your a loser..
BUT as CHARISMATIC, that they can't figure out.
When I became more secure..
Women, would prefer a dude 'jumping' on his loser self, than me ALL secure..
Funny thing, is, even I saw those 'NEWBIES' as charismatic.
Am not clear, am I?